The Organizational Snowball

Sometimes the most empowering achievements in life are the simplest, aren't they?

As you guys know, we've been doing plenty of organizing, purging and simplification around our humble abode lately. Some are big (why hello, there, basement), others are what I call "steps" (I'm attacking my side of the office a little at a time), and still others are a quick one-and-done attack.

Today, I'm sharing one that's made a big impact, although you wouldn't know it by walking around my house. I feel like playing the "colder, hotter" game with you all. No, seriously, keep looking. Not in the living room. Nope, cold, stay out of the kitchen. Dining room? Warmer. Getting warmer.

HOT! Bingo. That's our dining room sideboard. Or server. Or console. (Not really, too big for that.) Thingamajigger that holds china and other random sundries.

We fell in love with its '20s/'30s vibe when we were in Vermont on our honeymoon. We filled it with gorgeous china (the stuff we use once a year...maybe), decor stuff, and...crap. Crap, crap and, just for fun, a touch more crap.

It had reached the point where the top two drawers were so full that I'd pull them open a couple of inches, toss an item back in, then close it as quickly as possible (pushing pretty hard to jam it shut). Just. So. Cluttered. But, those were the only drawers that I used with any regularity. (Remember: extemporaneous china in the bottom drawers/cabinets.)

We'll just put you through one of the drawers' craziness.

I had a dream of purging and making one side into decor-type stuff and the other one into a kidcentric spot. Turns out, it wasn't too hard. And I need bigger dreams.

Just had to recycle a couple dozen super old magazines. That seems to be the theme with my house purging; magazines multiply.

I mean, really. Just check out that kid side. It has made our summertime projects and "lessons" (a couple of workbooks) so pleasant. Well, the workbooks are pretty fun, anyway, but being organized has made it such a simple, more enjoyable thing.

Aaaaand the other side. My grandmother's dictionary, some thank you notes, random decor stuff...and a cat toy that we've gotta keep in hiding. Ultra special, that dangly toy.

Aside from stuff that got tossed, here are things that either a) went in the basement (rafia, red and white ball garland that I LOVE using at Christmastime, homemade pennant garland, some random hardware, hardly-used trays) or b) off to Goodwill (frames!).

I utilized my good ol' tips of 1) usage: figuring out what still has a purpose (sorry, old magazines), 2) placement: what actually needs to be there, in the dining room area and 3) getting creative: using organizational tools in different ways (a silverware organizer turned into our art supply caddy). Super helpful, super simple.

Somehow, heading to the basement after seeing such an organized little space was the kickstart I needed to dig in down there. And, the rest is history. Er. Mostly done. (We're having the walls painted this weekend, then can move the stuff back to have an ultimately super organized space after that. Squeal!)

So, there you have it. The snowball that started the avalanche of purging. Here's what's up for the next few weeks:

- Finishing the basement stuff
- Office stuff (and possibly even moving ALL my stuff outta there...we'll see)
- Hadman's closet
- My clothes 

Anyone else using summer as an excuse to organize crap? Or are you just, y'know, having fun like most people? ;-) Do tell!  

Basement Organization - Home Improvement Crap

Welcome to "Basement Organization, Pt. II - Battle of the Clutter"!! I worked my belly off during the little man's nap time (seriously, I had him rubbing my aching baby bump when he got up) to organize the stuff that Dave had pulled off our shelving units over the weekend. We have one unit that's dedicated to paint (which used to house paint, but we had a "tipping over" incident) and another that has tools, electrical stuff and other odds-and-ends things for around the house.

Oh, and there was other random crap cluttering up the space.

Seriously. This is what we were dealing with when I walked into the basement:

Just lotsa wrong goin' on. Stuff got moved. Stuff got tossed. It was fun. And my tips from our first weekend organizing came in super handy. Like stuff with like stuff, FTW! 

Hey, look! An old TV. (Which will replace our current old TV when it kicks the bucket. Not kidding.)

The stuff on the TV has actually since been taken care of, and the box on the right is stuff for Dave to go through. Otherwise, tools on the bottom two shelves, odds and ends organized by "type" (electrical stuff, cleaning chemicals, sundry tapes, safety gear) on the top two. 

Since we'll be painting the rest of the floor (Dave started awhile back) and hopefully the walls, this stuff is all going to have to be pulled out and moved, but I needed to get it out from the middle of everything. They don't look it, but they're totally organized - interior, primers, Drylok, and exterior. My favorite semi-gloss trim paint lives on the shelving...because it deserves it.

So, how're we doin'? I need to turn my attention back to the clothing situation and organizing around the washer/dryer area, plus we've got a Lowe's trip to make (I'd like another shelving unit to organize kiddo stuff and maybe totes and some spray paint for a freebie I recently scored).

One thing I've realized is the tumbling dominoes of organization rule. The more space that opens up (little by little), I realize that it loosens me up mentally to purging and storing stuff from other areas. Like, I've got some stuff from the garage that I'd rather have inside than in an outside space, and our office is in dire need of decluttering. This doesn't mean shuffling crap we don't need around, but giving serious consideration to what's needed and how often it's used, then storing appropriately.

I'm super inspired by small living and mindful living websites and blogs lately, so that also helps in my mindset. Anyone else trying to live a more fulfilling life with less?

Basement Organization

We have two spaces in our house that overwhelm us with "stuff" -- our office (which I hardly use and Dave uses regularly) and our basement. Since we're up in the air as to whether or not we'll find a new house before the little one comes along, we're trying to be proactive, both by getting wicked organized in case we do sell and move OR in the case that we don't move, we'll have simplified and found more room in the process. Win-win, really.

This weekend, before I had a chance to even take "before" pictures (crappy blogger), we headed downstairs to see what we could get done. One toddler naptime turned into another and, of course, we still have lots more to work on, so I'm sure I'll be chatting about our basement a bit more as we continue our purging/organization fun. I'm hoping to get down every day this week (during naps or after bedtime)...yup, it's that bad.

On Day #1, while Dave sifted through all of our home improvement items (lots of sanding blocks!!), I turned my attention under the stairs. This is where all of our holiday stuff lives, along with gift wrap, gift bags, ribbon, etc. I didn't move everything out, but organized and sifted through and evaluated...and ended up with this:

Here are some of the strategies I used to organize the space:

Put Similar Items Together - Believe me; it wasn't easy in the beginning. Walking into a basement that has become more and more of a dumping ground over time is downright panic attack-inducing. But, my #1 organization tip is to dive in by making piles of (or simply separating into) similar items. Don't obsess about the sheer vastness of the stuff; put on your blinders and start making piles.

So, now my Christmas stuff is with, duh, the Christmas stuff. (I'm saying "duh" to myself, BTW.) Gift bags are organized specifically by birthday, characters (like, superheroes or Peter Rabbit), and new baby, then there was even a separate bag just for the generic, anytime bags.

This was the first moment (among many) that I realized, JOYOUSLY, that I don't need to buy a new gift bag for a long, long time. Same goes with tissue paper. And Christmas wrap...and tape...and ribbons...and boxes of all sizes. Holy crap. Literally all I need for Christmas is some new sticker tags to go on gifts (and maybe one wrap of "Santa paper"). Knowing that we'll have a newborn at Christmastime and realizing that I'm all set with that side of things calms me. "And knowing is half the battle!" Speak to me, Transformers.

Location, Location, Location - Doesn't it just make sense to keep the things that you use most often closest to you? In this case, it's gift bags, which we use (and reuse and reuse) with unapologetic abandon. So, keeping those behind the Christmas stuff would've been silly. Front and center they are. 

This will also apply to the totes of baby/toddler clothes (of which we have, I believe, 8...I only wish that wasn't true, and we bought very, very little of it ourselves). Why keep the 18-month stuff at the top of the stacks when we'll need newborn and 0-3 months first? It also helps direct you as to where certain items should go, as well as help you analyze whether you need the item at all. If something's automatically being shoved to the back wall, why? If it's an "once-a-year-but-need-it" thing (ahem, Christmas crap, I'm talking to you), then fine. But if it's an "I really don't know when we'll use that" thing, say ba-bye.   

Get creative with storage - Not everything needs to be perfectly packed in totes with labels typed in a label-maker. I mean, sure, that'd be great, but sometimes a tote takes up too much spaces or doesn't fit your needs. (Although, I highly suggest using them for storing kiddo and maternity clothes; they don't breathe as much as I might like, but they're the easiest solution I can think of for now. Plus, the transparent or semi-transparent ones, you can just shove a piece of paper labeled with a marker for what's inside along the side and see it - no tearing or getting messed up.)

So, aside from boxes we have been saving FUH-RE-VER, I grabbed things that either were heading for the donation pile or are hardly used. So, a random blue basket that I haven't used in years just happened to fit all the tissue paper perfectly. One large seen-better-days gift bag holds all the rest of the "can be used" ones. A cheap, heavy duty glass hurricane candleholder worked as a makeshift gift wrap holder (and if it breaks, I truly won't shed a tear). A random nail or pipe protruding from a wall or ceiling overhang is a great place to hang a string of Christmas lights.

And always, ALWAYS stack as much as possible. All those baskets you see would take up mad space if they weren't piled up. It is what it is.

Expect All the Emotions - The rush and joy I felt has made me actually excited to head back down to the dungeon, I kid you not. I'm like a purging monster. "Must. Purge. Mooooorrrre." And finding cards and gifts that kids gave me years ago while I was teaching at a different school? Heartstrings!

But, it hasn't all been a high. First of all, while I'm pretty active during pregnancy with yoga and, like, not slowing down, the baby has definitely stopped me in my path a few times. "Seriously, Mama. Too much. Go get some water, sit down, and thank me later." I can always tell that I've overdone it; not a matter of "if" but "when." It's how I roll, I guess.

At the same time, there have been frustrations and tears. Tears = finding a platter that was my grandmother's shattered. Frustrations = the sheer mass of stuff that we actually had little control over in the first place (stuff that was passed along that we didn't want or need).

It's all part of the game, though, and the best emotion that I've cultivated is RELAXATION. No, seriously! While it's definitely hard, sweaty, dirty work, I've discovered exactly the stuff we have. I've realized that THIS is when you overbuy.

How many times have you had to get a gift for someone so you bought more tissue paper, not realizing that you already have enough in storage? Or because you don't know what you have in storage from awhile back, you buy yet another pair of black work pants? In our case, I've been starting to mentally gear up about getting some cold season maternity clothes and post-maternity COOOOLD weather stuff. (The last baby was born in July.) However, after going through all the hand-me-downs and stuff I had, even in summer, I've discovered a lot of items that will work! It brought a calm to me that I haven't felt in awhile.

How many of you have a space in your house that's overrun by clutter or needs organizing? When I head down tonight, I'll probably be heading back to purging clothing (this does NOT excite me) or to organize and figure out storage for the home improvement stuff Dave sorted. That has spread out, big-time, so to get that up off the floor and truly organized will be a good feeling. 

Coat Closet Clean-Out

You can always tell the season has changed when I start getting the (occasional) itch to clean again. Okay, okay. Of course I clean the rest of the year...but this is my "that's driving me nuts, I've gotta get it CLEAN already!!!" time of year.

This is what led me to pulling out 85% of the contents of our living room coat closet to finally, FINALLY reorganize, purge a bit, and create some additional living space for a certain someone's toys. #notDave

Here's what we started with...

Crappy pictures to the rescue! Dun dun-dun duuuun!!

Things had just been piled up and up and added to (super generous relatives + super adorable toddler = 4+ winter coats in the same size, and various hats 'n mittens), so it was time to pack away those items that we'll use in the future. We didn't actually end up getting rid of a ton, but they found new places to live. I did some major shuffling and grabbed some fabric totes and baskets from the basement to see if I could work something out. (Spoiler: I only needed one!)

Here's how it looks today:

Not earth-shattering, but kind of a game changer for me. Those four plastic bins of toys are out of eye-shot in the living room (I've still got more purging to do of toys...big time) but within reach of the little guy. If I had put them high up, every time I open the door he'd inevitably notice them and demand that they come down. Sometimes making things more easily accessible actually lessens the demand. #themoreyouknow

Up top is deceptively simple, as well. I stuffed anything diaper-related into the (duh, Meg) diaper box, moved the tennis rackets to the basement, and weeded out the bin leaving behind only the items we use, both winter AND spring/summer related. (It also has our cat essential - lint brush.) On the right side up top is where we store our board games, but there was also room to toss H's awesome Mickey Mouse sleeping bag. It's the little things, y'know.

Here's a close look at our toy storage:  

Legos, wooden train set, "Little People" & other figurines, and bigger Lego pieces and cars.

This is the part that I'm most excited about. We've got a bookcase chock full of books in the little guy's bedroom. We also had acquired a stack of random books, magazines ("High Five"! Love it!!), and kid-friendly comic books on our ottoman. It was time to figure something out.

So, with that one fabric bin from the basement, I created our own downstairs library. I'll switch out books here and there to create some interest, but it's awesome to be able to pull this out and have some quiet-ish reading time on the first level of our house during the day. We've honestly waited to read numerous books as a family every evening in our bedroom, but this makes it more of an "anytime" occurrence.

Whatchya think? It definitely has me glancing around at the other spring cleaning activities I've yet to undertake! I'm just encouraged that we were able to open our windows to let some of the good, clean air in yesterday (even if it was 40 degrees - a heat wave, I tell ya!).

Purge Plans

We just took down about 95% of our Christmas decorations and said a sad goodbye to our gorgeous tree. (I'm too attached to my "wow, I did that?!" chalkboard sketch, seen on my decor breakdown, so until I'm inspired or totally done with it, it's staying!) Paired with heading back to school today (after a super generous two weeks off with the family...I know, I'm spoiled), and I'm definitely feeling the post-holiday letdown. Who else gets hit by this every year?

Sure enough, though, this time of year also gives me a bit of a lift. I suddenly feel motivated to undertake some purging, decluttering and organizing when January hits. Nothing to do with resolutions, but maybe something about the freshness of a new year and the boredom (if it can be called that) of winter.

Add to it the fact that we're hoping to find a new home in 2015 and what better reason than to declutter? It seems to be the #1 way to make one's house more appealing to prospective buyers, not to mention the fact that it's free. To avoid the emotional side of things (don't even get me started, LOL), I remind myself that it's for the best if we remember that it's better to move only the things we love rather than haul everything, including junk or excessive "stuff" we don't actually use or need.

So, I thought I'd share a list of the purging and organizing I'm planning to do before springtime. I've got other projects in mind, but this is just the organizational stuff. :-)

- Basement. We have an unfinished basement with lots of stuff (and, dare I say, crap). It's orderly, but it's easy to just dump one thing at a time that it's gotten out-of-hand. It's also quite dark and cold, so you have to find a day that's relatively warm outside and bright, and most importantly that we're motivated to work on it. Blah.

- Clothes. Dude. I haven't even switched out my summer clothes. The best I've done is weeded out Had's 2T stuff for 3T {sniffle}. So, yup. About time!

- Office. I've promised Dave that I'd help him purge the office, although the books that we own are all ones that we love and want to keep. It's more about organization (and a little bit of purging) to make the space work best.

- Closets. We've got some closets that are bursting at the seams and others that are housing unimportant stuff. So, yeah. Organize, organize, organize! 

- Kitchen Cabinets. At least once or twice a week, I find myself reaching my boiling point over what? Being totally unable to either get a piece of cookware out of out cabinets or get one back in its rightful place. Doesn't sound maddening, but it really can be. These things were built for people of 90 years ago (which I love), so they just don't work, size-wise and shelf position-wise. I figure a good purging of unused or unnecessary stuff will help, along with a reorganization.

Do you guys have any clutter cutting going on lately? Does January light a flame under you to work on anything that's fallen to the wayside? Do tell!

On that note...off to watch Downton Abbey! (It's only a slightly less abusive to watch than Sherlock. That one takes frickin' years to put out a new season. Worth it, all around.)

Our Makeshift Kitchen

Given Hadley's propensity for pretending to be a cook with his beloved play food, I've been jonesin' to get him (or, more likely, make him) a play kitchen for, like, ever. But, it's kind of useless in our house. We live in just shy of 1,000 square feet and, while it works now, there's not a ton of "just his" play space. It's one of the things we'll be looking for when we eventually move, hopefully in 2015.

But, for now, we've gotten creative. We use bins and baskets to store most of his toys, but his "food" and anything he likes to use with it (like empty containers or spoons) has their very own makeshift home.

We have these cool but slightly crooked-door built-in cabinets between the living room and dining room. The living room side houses DVDs (perfect size) and one of the dining room ones holds decorative stuff. Awhile back, however, I cleaned out the final cabinet and decided it would be all Had's.

It isn't much, but finding a space that's his very own is awesome. Oh, and he's also only getting into my cabinets a fraction as much as he used to and he hardly gets into those "no, don't touch" places as much. And, yes. We sucked at toddler-proofing.

I still hope to create a mini kitchen area for him in some future playroom, but for now, this spot doubles as an oven, a pantry, a fridge, and more. Pretty much whatever his mind comes up with, which is incredible.

What are some tricks that you've used to contain the clutter or give your little one some space that's his/her own? I love seeing alcoves and bedroom closets transformed into little nooks just for them to play in, too. So cool!

So Fresh and So Clean Clean

I'm sure there are about eleventy billion blog posts with that title since, say, 2001. Make this eleventy billion...one. (For not being a math person, I'm annoyed to no end when people say "one hundred AND one"; "and" means decimal point, people! Anal much? ;-))

So, anyhoo, cleaning sucks. The only person I can remember encountering who LOVED cleaning was...hmm...Danny Tanner. And he was fictional. Highly doubt Bob Saget's even remotely like that in real life.

So, while my house is far from perfect, I thought I'd share a handful of simple tips that I use to keep the Monster of Filth from overtaking our lives. They definitely also act as a stress reliever.

Invite someone over every two weeks. (Or at least pretend like someone might stop by at some point.) You know that one big whirlwind clean that you do when company's coming? The one that feels a bit like a workout? Y'know, before your MIL (or, in my case, mother) drops by? This is it.

Do it once, then do it again in two weeks (one week if you can; my average us two, and there's nothin' wrong with that). You'll notice that it won't be as huge of a challenge when you do some of the other tips below; it'll get easier. 

Plus, it feels nice to sit back and enjoy the cleanliness (and friendship, of course) at the start of a weekend, which is usually when we have folks over. (I clearly don't subscribe to the "you're my friend, I don't have to clean before you come over" theory. I will, at the very least, pick up and vacuum for you. It's the least I can do!)

Slow and steady wins the race. It sounds contradictory to the last point, but after that one big cleanfest, pick out the chores that you need to complete more regularly. Daily, a couple of times a week, and weekly. 

Maybe you need to dust and vacuum more often (vacuuming is a common thing for us with a toddler dropping food and playing on the floor where cats may be traipsing litter). Maybe your bathroom can use a quick once-over weekly, or more. Stretch these jobs out over the course of a week. Toilet and wipe down of all bathroom surfaces Monday, vacuum Tuesday, etc. Then when it's time for your "company clean," you'll only have some of the deep-cleaning stuff to do.

Do something everyday. I'm not talking about the fact that my grandmother mopped her floors daily. True story! I'm saying that you can pick from that list and, depending on your mood and energy level that day, do ONE thing.

Mind you, this could include smaller, regular stuff like putting dishes away or folding a load of laundry all the way up to Old Englishing (totally a word) the woodwork or touch-up painting. Simple and small or big project, it all counts. Which leads me to...

Get into the habit of picking up. Every night when Hadley's in bed, we attack the main living area. Some days he hardly touches the toys, but most days (and especially on weekends or during the summer), the place looks like a tornado hit.

So, we pick up. Our stuff, his stuff, whatever. It really only takes about five minutes, and it makes a huge difference when we come down the stairs, bleary-eyed, the next morning to a relatively neat house. Don't get me started on cat toys, though. Those, I like to leave out for our boys' mental stimulation, so I really only pick them up if company's company. Is that weird?

Find what works with you and stick with it. Some people prefer doing all the dusting in their entire house at one time, then doing another chore the next day. Others like getting one room done at a time, even if it involves dragging out the vacuum and all the supplies needed to clean it each day for each room. I usually do it the first way, but I can swing both ways. I'm hip like that.

And there's no right or wrong way. Seriously, whatever you're comfortable with, just do it. It's kind of like how I budget. I know it's not the way a lot of people would be comfortable handling money, but it works for me.

Gotta Stay on Top of My Life, Gotta Stay on Top of My Life

Is it just me, or is September kind of like January's nerdy kid brother? Given all the back-to-school craziness and a return to "normalcy," I tend to be confronted with the fact that I clearly didn't do enough of a productive nature over the summer (even if I actually got a ton done). I flounder and stare face-to-face at a necessity to get my life in order. And I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one. Teachers, parents...hey, even single or retired folks. Something about that chill in the air, am I right?

January's the cool kids' turn to pick some resolutions in an attempt to kick start some positive change. I see September as a quieter, yet tad more frenzied time to do the same. All those lists that people consider on January 1st are just as relevant on September 1st. Perhaps because they're not under a microscope as much, they may not be as intimidating...maybe?

So, obviously I'm taking a few steps to "stay on top of my life." (If you don't know the Kids in the Hall already, I beg of you -- check out the video. If you're not into a bit of bloody violence or quirky humor, please, for the love of God, don't click. Oh, and this was a huge part of my adolescence. Explains lots.) For a simpler take on this, I provide you with this hilarious (or, if you're not in the know, ridiculously random and stupid) take...

Yeah. I made that. Ahem.

Back to the point. Given that September is equivalent to January, I thought I'd share a little list of the "resolutions" I've already started working on. Some are relevant to being back at school and having more structured time (which means focusing on using my time more wisely) and others are just good ol' self improvement things.

For the record, I hate the word "resolutions", too.

- Bed by 10pm (on school nights). Dang nabbit, I'm doing this. Depending on the night, falling asleep by 10 is easier than...coming up with an analogy. Other nights, my energy level is higher and I'll force myself to lay down, sans TV/cell phone/any screens whatsoever and read. It's helped me get to the conclusion of the book I've been reading ALL SUMMER, so that in itself is pretty rad. It also makes me far less grumpy come 6am. Um. Generally.

- Getting in some exercise. I'm not taking on the PXButtKickandLiftChallengeXXI or whatever, but I'm hoping that by incorporating variations of cardio/Pilates/yoga/core strengthening, I'll be gaining some much-needed extra energy as well as *hopefully* toning up some of the squishy bits. I've already mentioned it, but Spark People is a great free site that provides a variety of videos at various levels (hello, beginner!) and numerous lengths. I'll probably move on to other sites if these ones aren't cutting it anymore, but for now they're perfect.

I think one of my issues in the past is that when I get it in my head to do something -- anything -- I go gung-ho initially and have a hard time following through at ANY pace. Apparently it's something my father did in areas of his life. When it comes to exercise, I've done this but also burnt out thanks to overdoing it from the start. So, I've started out by doing one medium-length or two shorter videos at a time, breaking a good sweat but leaving myself feeling energized rather than totally zonked. I'll build on.

Oh, and I'm doing this 3-4 days during the week and 1 day on weekends, while keeping track a) the exercise(s) and b) duration of workout on our family calendar, partly for motivation and partly because I have the memory of a...of a...I don't even know what.

- Setting boundaries. This. Is. Hard. I fall into this trend of not leaving school until after 4:30 (our contract says we can leave at 3:30). And it's not like I'm doing anything super important. I'm just fiddling here and there with stuff that can totally wait 'til the next day. So, I'm trying to leave by 4 (and earlier on Fridays, can you imagine...). This helps with the aforementioned exercise goal (fitting in the exercise, a shower, and getting dinner underway before the guys get home) and will help me stay focused during the day on what needs to get done instead of putting stuff off 'til the end of the day.

- "Money money money mooonnnneeyy. MONEY." (That stupid song that's used for "The Apprentice." Gah.) I've mentioned this lately, but I'm going to be paying close attention to my spending, writing down my purchases, analyzing where my cash is flowin' and why, and researching some ways to keep it under tabs.

For those in the balcony seats, let me project: I'M NOT GREAT WITH MONEY. It's tough to admit that, as an otherwise generally responsible adult who thus far HAS been fine with moolah. (And I don't have massive student loans as an excuse like my awesomely-getting-on-top-of-it husband.) But, yeah. We're looking at some pretty big goals as a family and if I don't focus on this area of life, it'll be my fault. Not cool.

Thank goodness for cool, approachable sites like Our Freaking Budget. We also glean some good advice from Dave Ramsey, so you don't have to leave any "Dave Ramsey is a GOD; we got rid of $1 million in debt and now have $1 million in savings thanks to him!" spiels in the comments...unless you want to brag. In which case, go on with your bad self.

Oh, and I'm even considering taking part in one of those "zero spend" challenges. Maybe. We'll see. I'm gonna go cry now.

- Planning meals. This one will help with finances but I'm also highly interested in seeing if meal planning truly does help me a) cut back on food waste, b) save ka-ching at the super and farmers' market, and c) make life easier. I'll check back if it does and let y'all know. And I'm on the hunt for real food cook-ahead and slow-cooker meals. SO hard to find slow-cooker recipes without a can or bottle of something super processed to bring it all together (and undoubtedly make it yummy).

- Simplify, as always. This is kind of a life goal that sits on my shoulder everyday. I'm pretty lucky, though. It's more like the cartoon angel version on the right side rather than the naughty/devilish kid on the left side. So, there's that. But, yeah. PURGE is the name of the game. A lot of our house is looking more and more like "us", and I love that, but we still have storage spaces (and, heck, out-in-the-open spaces like the toy explosion storage in our living room) that need another once-over. The basement is also in dire need of straightening and hoeing out (who you callin'...) AND painting, so there's that.

The thing that sucks for me is that, well, again...I've got my dad's gene of needing the motivation before getting up and DOING something. Takes me forever to finish a project, but once it's done, it's done pretty darn well. So, I can't say on Monday that I'll plan on working on the basement Saturday. I may wake up Saturday feeling motivated to do something else that's equally important. Or play with Hadley all day. Or sit on my tush watching the world whiz by (while the laundry's going...because at least then I'll feel like I did SOMETHING). Whatevs.

But, I think the only way to break this is to just DO. Like, we wouldn't have gotten our recent front porch project completed if Dave hadn't said, "Okay, I'm going to start this." (Once he started, I had to finish, so I didn't want to let his hard work be overshadowed by my laziness.) And, believe me. I did NOT feel like doing it, but when it was done...well, awesomeness ensued.

- Live in the moment. Observing the changes in Hadley. Enjoying the humor that my students pump into random lessons. Looking for moments of simple joy and lucky experiences. Contacting friends to hang out or come over for meals or meet up for coffee. In general, remembering to savor the good and hold onto the bad momentarily. 

Hey, look! Seven things in my list. Whatchya know? So, what about you guys? Do you feel like this time of year is a bit like New Year's with its feeling of "let's start this season on a new foot"?

Or are you just psyched for pumpkin spice everything? Really, though. Who can blame you?

Spring Cleaning Week #4ish

SIDE NOTE: Happy birthday to my awesome niece, Morgan, and my mom!!! Not that either reads the blog. ;-)

Last week's spring cleaning adventures were derailed with some intensive tearing apart/painting/re-decorating of the dining room. Now I know why it took me so long to get the project done! Exhausting!! So, while I did tons of cleaning, none of it was necessarily of the spring cleaning ilk; hence why I didn't feel it right to post any to-do lists when I, myself, wasn't holding up my end of the bargain.

So, where we left off, we had worked on any and all windows, the fridge/freezer, any downstairs bathrooms (none here!), and finally headed upstairs (or, at least, the "traditionally upstairs" places for those of you with a smaller or one-level environment) to like the office and main bathroom.

That said, here's our "to do list" this week:

- Play "catch-up." You know what I mean. Anything on the lists so far you haven't done (or anything that may need a little extra time -- like, picking up and vacuuming the living room again). Here's your get-out-of-jail-free card. Let's git 'er done.

- Bedrooms. Vacuum/sweep/mop floors. Shake area rugs. (Does anyone else get a dirty look, no pun intended, from the neighbors for shaking rugs outside? Dude, seriously? Well, excuse me for cleaning my house.) Clean ceiling fans. Vacuum lampshades and your mattress. Dust EVERYTHING. Wipe down walls and woodwork. Wash sheets, pillowcases, comforter/blankets, and curtains. (TIP: Hang those puppies up IMMEDIATELY straight from the dryer. Avoid ironing at all costs!) If you feel up to it, go through your "winter clothes" and switch stuff out for spring/summer stuff. Oh, and move everything out from under the bed and vacuum/sweep/mop there, too! Think about allergies, folks.

- Organizing. Y'know that office crap from last time? File it. (Ugh. My nemesis. Filing stuff.) Go through your linen and general storage closets. Go through all the books on your shelves and analyze whether you a) will read them, b) need them for future reference, or c) will read them again if you already have. Purge. Make a pile to donate. Keep a bag aside for any medicines that have expired (and keep an eye out for a prescription drop-off day at a local police department or pharmacy) -- this keeps it out of our drinking water, folks!! Make a list for any organizational helpers you may need, such as bins, shelves, racks, boxes, etc.

- Look around. Your house may have an extra room or two that I haven't mentioned. (I'm not talkin' basements here. That's a whole other story.) So, in your living space, analyze if there's anything left to do. Do one more walk-through to pick up, or do a quick vacuum, or a once-over with a dust rag or window cleaner. (For some reason, my TVs are endlessly filthy, and I haven't a clue why. Other than the fact that we have a toddler who apparently likes to pick Big Bird's nose. What a friend.)


That's it for now! If you want, you can officially call your spring cleaning done. If you want to go more in-depth (anything I missed, go nuts!), save it for next week. Otherwise, once I've caught up with my to-dos, I'll be sharing some "spring cleaning" (um...organizing) for some non-living space places. Read: The basement and garage...dun dun duuuuuunnnnn.

What better than a public statement on your personal blog to keep you accountable? Eh? Eh? nudge, nudge

Embracing Self Care - Peace in the Home

Welcome back to our third installment in the "taking care of yo' self" series! (Not really; I just called it that.)

This week's "Embracing Self Care" theme involves peace in the home. Now, this can encompass many different topics -- from finding peace through organization, surrounding yourself with decor that helps you find peace (or finding decor that helps you feel at one with yourself; finding your "style"), finding a schedule/routine that works for you, etc. See? It really can mean ANYTHING! Love that!

For me, this involves a couple of things. Obviously, I'm in the midst of some "low-stress" spring cleaning. (Taking it a day at a time, folks.) When I'm done with the "cleaning" part (ie the scrubbing, dusting, mopping, vacuuming stuff), I plan to attack on the organizational front. I'm weird that way. I see cleaning as more of a "must destroy dust bunnies!" and "wash windows" sort of thing; yes, things are neat and orderly afterwards, but more in a "picked up" way.

So, after things are spic and span, I'm going to address any organizational issues that we have. This will entail looking at areas where we're falling short (like finding better uses for our closets and built-ins, and my bills...I pay them, then pretend they don't exist 'cuz, y'know, I don't like them...so they just end up in random piles) and areas that just need our attention, like the basement and garage (y'know...the dirty places).

This is twofold for us. Yes, we want to have an organized, happy, serene environment...but we also hope to ready our house for a possible move. See? Two birds, one stone. ;-) (Hate that phrase, but it's relevant.) And, of course, I'll share any tips I pick up on the way.

The second "peace in the home" factor I hope to work on (which goes hand-in-hand with readying our house for a sale) is our style. This is the week I'm FINALLY working on painting the red out of our lives dining room, with the help of my uber-motivated mom. (Spoiler: It's already gone! Just got some trim to do before sharing.) The other rooms are relatively light and airy (our bedroom is a little moody with a green wall, which we may or may not keep) or at least neutral, and the burgundy sticks out like a sore, outdated, 1990s thumb. 

Aside from that, I've got some Pinspiration regarding other areas of the house. Our front room was a spot that helped sell us on the place originally, so I'm hoping to modernize it a bit with the help of some better window treatments (we still use the short sheers that came with the house...for shame). So, I'm on the hunt for some extra long white curtains to hang "high and wide" and a few more bamboo shades, for an effect kind of like this --

Original Source

Original Source

I'm also excited that my stepdad has offered to help me complete the tub surround with a ghetto he-thinks-it'll-work solution (I have my doubts), so that'll finally be a done project. I'm not happy with the art I made for that space, so I've got my eye out for other DIY art solutions that'll make me happy. Not to sound picky, but I'm not a huge fan of the word art stuff ("Brush your teeth. Wash your hands." Uuuummm. No comment.); I guess I'm more into either a graphic or a vintage botanical print type thing.

Maybe something like this... (Different colors.)

Not sure of original source :-( Hate that!
If anyone knows, let me know, please!

Or this type of botanical...

Original Source

I also recognize that a big part of moving will be weeding out things that we don't wish to drag with us to our next residence. That can be a horribly daunting task, or it can be an uplifting "ahhh" getting rid of stuff we don't NEED in our lives task. Probably 50/50, in all honesty. There's a part of me that looks forward to taking all the wine bottles off the shelf and in storage, putting only the pots and pans that we need in our cupboards, and having less "visual clutter" around the place. I'm already asking myself how many mugs we actual need to have on-hand for guests and for ourselves, how many utensils should be in our drawers, and what food we truly need around cluttering up our cabinets. Maybe it'll be therapeutic, who knows?

So, the only way that "schedule" really fits into this "finding peace in the home" concept is that we need to better schedule our "to dos" to actually, um, y'know...get them done! ;-) The goal is to remember to keep the peacefulness of our lives while working on these projects and focusing on our future, and to make sure that the monkey doesn't get his routine too knocked out of whack.

What about you? What "peace" do you hope to achieve in your own lives? How are you hoping to achieve it? Feel free to post a link to your blog (if you have one), or just share in the comments.

 

TThisWednesday, April 16: Peace in the Home

This can encompass home decor, fashion, organizing and decluttering, schedule and routine, etc. Whatever needs to happen in your life in order to restore peace and equilibrium will be represented during this week!

Wednesday, April 23: Taking Some R&R

This week we’ll dive into taking time to pamper ourselves, time to fully relax, putting aside the to-do list, etc. We will recognize that we need to find healthy ways of treating ourselves so that we aren’t tempted to bad habits that ultimately harm us (i.e. emotional eating of sugar, etc.)
- See more at: http://thehumbledhomemaker.com/2014/03/embracing-self-care-community-blogging-project.html#sthash.aWSSQQGz.dpuf

Spring Cleaning Week #2

I mentioned last week that I'm doing my spring cleaning less in a "this room, then that room, then another room" way and more of a piecemeal concerted attack. If you're coming along for the ride (ie joining in on my suggested "to do" lists), stay tuned for this week's "homework." Hey, literally!

Since last week we did anything ceiling/wall-related (+ some) on our first floor (or the main living area of your one-floor digs), this week it's time to do some heavy-duty floor and woodwork/baseboard cleaning. Top to bottom, see? Also, it's time to turn to storage -- which, in our house means our DVD/"extemporaneous what the what?" built-ins, our main "coats 'n crap" closet, and *dun dun dun* the kitchen. Since, think about it: what's a kitchen beyond some landing pads, a couple of "specialty" areas (sink, oven, spot for cats to eat), and a buttload of storage? Am I right?

Here's my little "to-do" list to keep up for Week #2; do with it what you will:

- Scrub woodwork with Old English (or whatevs...if you want to be all eco, use olive oil and essential oils or somethin'); if it's painted, clean it with a rag and soap OR if it's really in rough shape, attack it with a Magic Eraser. Poof. As my mom would say, "You can do this with the TV on in the background!" (Easier said than done, but she says it, anyway. Do I really need to see what's happened on "Little Women" or "My Girl" for the 200th time? Beth and Thomas J. still die. *sad face*)

- Do organizational bursts. See how quickly you can get your main closet and kitchen cabinets emptied, sorted into piles (KEEP IN CLOSET/CABINET, KEEP ELSEWHERE, THROW OUT, DONATE), then (sometimes the hardest part) neatly put it all back in. If you need a new storage system or don't think what you're doing is working, jot down if you think you need baskets or to peruse the organization solutions in your favorite store to see if anything pops out at you. *So far, I've done the dining room built-ins and sidebar, as well as the front room trunks. Doesn't sound like much, but just looking at the minimally-decorated sidebar and knowing how neat and tidy it is on the inside gets me jonesin' to do more.*

- Sweep and mop the kitchen floor -- move EVERYTHING out and give this the real once-over. Wipe down all kitchen surfaces (including the grease + dust + cat fur combo that has cemented itself to the tops of the fridge and microwave, open shelving, cookbooks, etc).

- Anything you didn't complete last week...like, admittedly, my downstairs ceiling fans. There's only two, but they're beasts, and I'm one tired mama. This isn't a "look what I can do!" run to the finish line, people. 

- Positive affirmation time! You can do this... "Because you're good enough...you're smart enough...and, doggone it, people like you!" Go one at a time. Listen to music while you unload. Make a game out of it (see how much crap you can find that you hardly/don't use!). Do whatever you have to do to empty/best use your spaces.    

Next week? Upstairs! (And any downstairs bathrooms or offices you may have. :-D) How's that sound??

Spring Cleaning Projects

Okay, so although our weather argues otherwise, it's time to finally start spring cleaning. I allowed myself a weekend of "not muchness" after the show ended (plus I had a battle with a cold/bug and some scary migraine incidents last week, so it took a lot to make dinner let alone consider cleaning), so 'tis time to get motivated.

See, cleaning (kinda like exercise) isn't the hard part. It's the motivation and mental capacity to tackle the huge projects. Heck, I don't know the last time the whole house was really, fully clean.

I was originally going to "chunk" the projects in a more manageable weekly list (like "bedrooms this week, living room and dining room the next week, etc."), but since I started to attack different things in different areas, that may be tough. Sometimes we throw our own plans outta whack, huh?

So, instead, it's kind of an overlap. The only way I can see myself staying motivated and engaged with the process is by checking in with (at least) weekly lists of what I've already done. It may give me a better idea of what I still have to do but it might be a little pat on the back to keep going. I'm just a bit bummed because it may not be super helpful to anyone reading to give them an idea of how to attack their OWN spaces, so I think I'll give a little "assignment" to help motivate each of you weekly. (It's not mandatory by any means...just use it if you're having a hard time knowing where to start.)

Sunday was the first day that I was able to undertake anything, and this is an idea of what I worked on:

- vacuumed, swept and mopped front room; wiped down walls; dusted; went through chest and purged some fabric and blankets; took some stuff (including hardly-used sewing machine) to basement

- vacuumed living room and started wiping walls; (always kept generally picked up; need to go through closet, shoes, coats, etc.)

- washes bed and crib sheets and blankets; switched to slightly lighter comforter (still have one heavy blanket to launder)

- wiped down bathroom sink, etc. (normal maintenance; still need to go gung ho here)

Lots more to do, but I won't bore you with a list of THAT (far longer!). 

So, so you make an effort to clean anything and everything around you for spring? Or are you waiting for me to dole out my assignment for the week? Well, how sweet of you to wait for lil' ol' me! Here's this week's "duty" (hee hee...):

WALLS AND CEILINGS -- Use a Swiffer, a duster, or even just a rag with mild soap to wipe down your walls and ceilings in your main living area. (If you have a "downstairs," your downstairs. If you have only one level, as much as you can -- maybe everything but your bedrooms, or more if you're feeling adventurous.) If you have ceiling fans, wipe them down. If they're REALLY bad, take attack them with hot water and detergent and take out the glass parts to clean in your sink. As Shirley Temple's mother once said, "sparkle!"

(Next week, the floors and storage -- closets, cupboards, etc. Just in case you want to get a head start. ;-))
And for some inspiration, your Clean Quote of the Week: "Let everyone sweep in front of his own door, and the whole world will be clean." - Goethe

Springing Back to Life

The show is officially done, after some wonderful audiences and far too much fun had on the part of the cast. And, of course, during the day last Saturday I started with the postnasal yuckiness, so by this point I'm part sad and part relieved that things have come to an end. I'm going to miss my buds (and even a new friend or two! Hooray for getting out of the house!), but I'm ready to get back to some normalcy.

While my head feels like it wants to fall off and my brain is having a tough time formulating, um, y'know, words, I thought I'd mention a few things that I'm jonesin' to get into that I've put off over the duration of the show. Time has a tendency to stand still and life gets put on hold while a person does a show. Not complainin'; just how it is.

So, yeah. When I finally get some rest and feel normal again, I'm hoping to turn my focus to SPRING (said in a sing-song fairy voice) and tick a few things off this ol' list:

- Spring cleaning. Ugh. I'm far from excited to get this done. I'm actually not sure the last time I actually COMPLETED a spring cleaning checklist. I get enough of it done, but not EVERYTHING. This year, since we've been chatting back and forth about making a possible move this spring/summer-ish, I've gotta find a way to actually get this fully accomplished. Even if I have to take it a week at a time, it'll get done -- and I'll bring you along for the ride, of course. You lucky, lucky folks, you.

- Spring-ify the joint. Kind of in line with spring cleaning, I've gotta turn my attention to the fact that I've still got winter-on-the-brain; at least, as far as my decor goes. We've still had FREEZING temperatures and snow, so the fact that we've got *gasp* temps in the 40s later in the week makes everyone excited even more for spring.

So, I'll officially wipe off my "Let It Snow" chalkboard art (maybe I'm the jinx who has made winter stay put all along...oops) and take down my rustic winter scarf decor (a variation of which I've had since Christmas) and figure out a brighter, lighter, and probably simplified decor scheme. For my husband's sake, if for no other reason. ;-) Heck, I finally pulled down the Christmas cards last week, but I don't think he was impressed.

(Pssst. You know what that means. I'm gonna be wasting more time on Pinterest soon!!)

- Start a-paintin'. I think we've pretty much finalized the color we're going to do the dining room (wait for it...), so I'd like to hit up Lowe's and grab a buttload of primer to get the show on the road in there. I also need to freshen up our kitchen cabinets, inside and out, with our usual white trim paint...which opens up Pandora's box since there's probably a thousand other places that need a little touch-up while I'm at it. 

- Hoeing out. Along with spring cleaning comes the inevitable urge to get rid of stuff. While I tend not to "spring clean" the basement, I'd like to take a stab at ours as far as organization and what we actually NEED to have down there is concerned. I may end up hosting a spring/early summer garage sale to help with the excess.

So, what about you? What are your spring plans? Are you already done with your spring cleaning, or is it not a part of your vocabulary? It's hard for me not to get bogged down with the guilt of cleaning every square inch of your dwelling this time of year; my mom raised me with insanely high standards. :-) Love ya, Ma!

When Things Get Tough, Make a List

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(This isn't our kitchen...)

With nearly every weeknight being taken over by theater rehearsals (not that I'm complaining! It's been a blast) and twice weekly physical therapy sessions (okay, that I kind of AM complaining about), it's easy to get overwhelmed. Super duper stressed. It's nice to have something fun to focus on, but the rest of this crazy life can get pretty nuts.

But, I've done pretty well. How? By chunking. Then listing.

Chunking means a million things (one of which involves child literacy, but that's not what I'm talkin' about here). In this case, I just use it as a coping mechanism; a way to handle things in smaller amounts. One day at a time. One meal at a time.

Since the things I look forward to most are at the end of the day (ie rehearsal and seeing Hadley and Dave at the end of it all), I look at each day in sections: morning, work, dinner/physical therapy/shower (those are one thing because they happen quickly in the span of about an hour +/- post-work), then "fun." (Yes, sometimes the "fun" part is stressful, but it's the almost-guaranteed positive in my day.)

Sure, sometimes there are positives in the rest of the day. Like, the morning rush almost always gives way to my daily phone chat with my mom. That's generally a happy, high point of the day, done while eating breakfast or folding laundry or what not. If I can fit little tasks like this in while getting other stuff done, I feel a) more productive, b) less overwhelmed later on (no one likes that "I've got NO clean underwear!?!?" feeling), and c) happier (see "a"; laziness makes one beat oneself up, whereas productivity gives a boost of adrenaline...it's a thing).

And, most days I can find SOME bit of happiness in the "work" side of things. Despite being a librarian, I despise putting books away. (My stack of books can attribute to that.) But if I chunk it into sections -- putting away chapter books on one day, or half of the "easy" books, or all of the pet and sport books, it's more manageable, even with a constantly full schedule. Plus, there's almost always a happy moment with the kids that makes the rest of the stress easier to take. Even just being in a good mood and laughing along with them (ie not letting their annoying habits break me down...and remembering they're only kids) helps.

As for P/T...well, that's a post for another day, but let's just call it a necessary evil. I go. I do. I feel awkward. I then become frustrated realizing that the exercises I have to do at home just doubled and I'll be getting up at frickin' 5:30 to get fit them in. I get grouchy. Then I move on. It's a cycle, and I'm used to it now. (Well, not the getting up early thing. It's not in my blood. I was meant to be my grandmother -- Grandpa got coffee and breakfast ready for HER.)

When I don't have P/T, I run around getting a "nicer" dinner ready and grabbing a shower (I shower at night out of convenience and time constraints...don't say "ew"). The time still flies, and I find myself running out the door to rehearsal.

*SKREEEEECH* (Not the dude from "Saved by the Bell"; let's not go there.) This is where my listing comes in.

I'm not great at to-do lists. Sometimes, it's a must. Like anytime I go shopping for example. Groceries or otherwise, I will inevitably forget something if I don't make a DETAILED list. Like...if I don't put down the COLOR of the shoes I was going to get, I will immediately walk into Target and go into a Target-coma; must look at EVERYTHING in the store. Inevitably walk out without the shoes I came for. Beat myself up later. (Same works with food of all sorts. Or toilet paper. Hate that.)

However, making a list of the food I have in the house or, better yet, the meal possibilities (some savvy bloggers refer to them as "meal plans", but I'm hardly a "planner"...so, I guess it's a "meal list") on my fridge's white board helps in this regard.

Of course, the first week I dared use this method (the craziest week yet...until this week, during which the show opens), things got thrown around...but, it was still nice to have the list and use a couple of the "suggested" dinners. Like, Dave and the munchkin stayed with his parents for dinner a couple of nights. Still fine since I could make the omelet I had listed as a possibility. And, saving grace, I had chicken in the slow cooker the night of my incredibly longer-than-usual P/T session last Thursday -- which meant I had time to scarf down half of my dinner before heading to the theater vs. not having ANYTHING to eat. Wasn't great, but was better than takeout (which...ahem...we don't really do these days).

So, what about your house? How do you handle the stress when you know it's gonna be a week from Hades? And are you a lister? What kind do you make? Are you like my mom -- whom we buy blank paper pads in bulk for, she makes so many lists?

Minimalist Mama

Similar to my zero-waste and French child rearing posts of yore, I've found a new inspiring (or frustrating, depending on how you look at it) concept in the cause of living simpler - the minimalist mom. Spoiler alert: I'm pretty sure it's not something we're going to adhere to, but stick with me here.

I saw this article on the Today Show's website which, in essence, talks about a British family who, after the mum lost her job and got slammed with the holiday marketing blitz, vowed to strike out against consumerism by not spending ANYTHING on their son (and now daughter -- yes, having a newborn and buying NOTHING for her). This is, of course, aside from any medical costs and food (although she doesn't buy into the "food marketed specifically to kids" thing). And, after a year, they're deeming it a success, and even continuing the project (with a monthly "get out of jail free" card).

After checking out the mom's blog, I get it. The fact that her "rules" on the site go as such --

1) Mama don’t preach. This isn’t about telling anyone else what to do. If you’ve read my blog before, even a couple of times, it should be pretty obvious that I DON’T KNOW. I have no answers. Just a few jumbled ideas and a wobbly will to try to do the best thing I can for the kids. Most of the time. When humanly possible. On good days.
2) Liberation not deprivation. If it turns out that any of us (Johnny, Frida, my husband, me) are less happy, more stressed, less healthy, or just generally flourishing less (wilting?) due to cutting out spending in any area, we’ll reintroduce that thing. This isn’t about being stoic, or even doing without. It’s about blundering messily but happily towards a way of life that makes us happy and content.
3) Honesty is the best policy. I will be honest. I’ll always tell you what’s going on. No sneaking purchases past this blog. Hand on heart.

-- is refreshing and lovely. She doesn't seem to be doing this to jump on the "a year doing *fill in the blank* to get tons of press" bandwagon. She genuinely knows how toxic it can be (figuratively) to have to deal with the constant onslaught of C-R-A-P as parents (and children). I mean, just look at this video:

Adorbs! Doesn't that just say it all?

Ahh. Stuff. That recurring theme of ye olde blog. I mean, just think of the influx (dare I say FLOOD) of toys (this isn't including outfits) we received for Hadman's birthday. Cuh-razy! (We've got a buttload more since Christmas, mind you. Le sigh.)

We're of the mindset that if folks would just give ONE toy (and maybe one outfit, if they get "the itch") for these special occasions, it'll make everyone a lot more comfortable (my mother's officially "scared" to get him ANY toys, and it's not because of me...simply put, it makes me super sad) and help Hadley to realize that it's more about showering him with love and kindness and appreciation and to let him know he has true worth. No one is allowed to "buy" his love, as far as I'm concerned, and we're going to have plenty of family conversations with him about it as time goes by. Y'know, when he starts to understand things better.

We also don't buy into (ha! Get it?) the "toy of the season" mentality. There's nothing he "has" to have. Not the latest Elmo thingamabobber. Not everything-Sesame-Street-because-he-likes-Sesame-Street. (Although the Easter Bunny has mentioned wanting to bring one SS-themed toy. Darn him.) Lord knows munchkin HAS more than enough already. If you took the sheer number of toys, he's reached his life quota. Seriously, that many. And he's not 2 yet.

Stop the insanity! (Remember that? From the '90s? Er...'80s, maybe? Susan Powter?)

The items that we get him tend to be creative or pretend toys that will hopefully stick around for years and years of use. Other toys that he has make him feel overwhelmed and bored SO. QUICKLY. Can you imagine? Having two huge containers of toys, literally overflowing, and feeling bored? I can imagine it. Because I see it. (Heck, when I look at all of his toys, I think, "Um, yeah. I'm going cross-eyed. Too much.") It makes complete sense.

We want him to have an imagination...and to use it. To play WITH him using OUR imaginations; inside, outside, with pots and pans and bowls and spoons, with sheets and boxes and recycled egg cartons. What greater gift is there than that? My best childhood memories are of just these things.
And there's also SO much to be said for "free play." You know, going to a park or running around your backyard like a giggling fool or digging in the dirt or...well, you know.
So, let's meander back to the topic at hand. Could we go a year without buying ANYTHING child-oriented?

It definitely got the ol' brain juices flowing. I buy him Annie's bunnies (but I eat them, too, and they're not necessarily kid-centric...just cutesy), but I also buy the whole milk yogurt that's perfectly portioned for toddlers (I swore I'd never do it, but saving 5-7 minutes in the morning? Psht.) I don't buy a lot of clothes or toys for him (family hooks us up on this front, mostly), but we have failed at cloth diapering. (Sad to even admit that.) So, purchasing dipes 'n wipes is a big one on the list.

Clearly, we couldn't fully go without getting him ANYthing...plus, I'm too spineless/lazy/imperfect/flip-floppy to do one of those "for a year" challenge thingies. Hey, at least I'm honest. *wink, wink*

However, there's a lot that I (or we, if you find it appealing) can learn from this experiment. I haven't utilized Freecycle much...er...at all. Ever. And I should. Same goes for Craigslist. So much of what she says is true, though. There's definitely a stigma that they have to be playing with the "right things" or wearing the "cutest" stuff. I find myself by nature anti-licensed character clothing. (I think it's because I didn't have much as a kid and realized I didn't really like it; exceptions are the ONE Punky Brewster t-shirt and a TMNT shirt {Michelangelo FTW!} that I owned, and maybe a hand-me-down Betty Boop sleep shirt.) I also find myself turning away those gifts because I don't want those obnoxious cartoon faces to inundate our own animated munchkin's face, y'know?

That's a tug-of-war right there. If it's willingly given, do you just accept (I actually know for a fact that doing that tends to open Pandora's box, causing us to receive even MORE stuff) graciously (which, believe me, we ARE truly grateful!) or do we pick and choose what we allow through our doors to better control what he (and we) are subjected to? Like...he's never seen a full-length Disney movie. (He knows Mickey and the rest from short films and watching his playhouse at Grandma's.) So...should he have shirts and pj's with a million images of Lightning McQueen all over them? Then there's the slipppery slope that we simply MUST own that movie (and a million others). Again, I only owned a handful of Disney flicks, and they were ones we already knew that (as a family) we loved watching over and over again. Not 50. Not 20. A handful.

And I turned out just fine. ;-)

Obviously, my head's still wrapping itself around this concept. I highly doubt we could do a full-blown challenge (even a month's worth...? Maybe? Maybe not.) like this, but it definitely is good to help consider our needs vs. our wants vs. society's perceived "you need to want"s.

Whatchya think?