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Monday, October 5, 2015
Tuesday, September 22, 2015
Summer Transitions - An Update
So, clearly I've hit a snag switching over to Wordpress. I'm fully ready on the technical end of things but, as always, the indecisiveness regarding my blog name (kind of important) is downright crippling, and I can't make the move until I've settled on one. It's a highly personal thing that I'm sure I'm over-complicating, but it also seems to be reflecting what I can only call a "blog identity crisis." My identity in the world. So, my husband and I continue to brainstorm (and suck at it). We greatly enjoy the writing aspect of blogging, but the marketing side? Blah. I think we've come up with some pretty rad band names and maybe some solid investment firm branding, but nothing identifiably "me" or bloggy. Hence, you'll know I've moved over...when I move over. ;-)
While I'm agonizing over the small stuff (well, that's a catchy if not depressing title right there), I can't just twiddle my fingers and not write. I mean, I'm writing for Thirsties and Green Child Magazine and even an awesome Arts & Analytics group that does analytic work in arts, athletics, and entertainment...but, this is my home. And I've got ideas and thoughts that I just can't wait to get on with.
So, I thought I'd share a bit of a recap of the end of summer (all things I wanted to write about in separate posts but got inundated with life and the Wordpress conundrum). We've been back in the swing of things as far as back-to-school goes for a couple of weeks now, so it feels like summer was SO long ago, but *technically* it's not autumn until tomorrow. See? Maybe I AM on top of things.
The CSA - As you may have read, we decided to try out a local CSA this summer. CSA stands for "community supported agriculture" and, in our case, was quite easy to take part in. We selected a farm that uses organic practices, paid, Dave picked up at a location relatively close to his work, and had a box of fresh veggies to work with for the week. The verdict? I'm glad that we did it, but learned that the full share was WAY too much food for our little family. Hence, we wasted WAY more food than I was comfortable with.
I just couldn't keep up. Sure, we tried a few new-to-us recipes, but between a rather picky toddler (at least he's a fruit eater!), varying energy levels on this pregnant mama's part, and the sheer amount of food, a half-share would've been fine. Definitely a lesson for next time. Oh, and I'm also rather happy that we just did the summer share rather than the whole summer/fall share. 'Tis the season to enjoy crisp Saturday mornings at the farmers' market!
Summer fun (and learning) - While there were days that I felt like the laziest person on Earth (and I felt awful that Hadman wasn't getting outside nearly as much as he should), we tried to get out a time or two each week. With the sheer heat of the season, there were times that I'd slather us both up with sunblock, grab some toys, head outside...and turn around within 10 minutes because our little guy is just as anti-humidity as his daddy. Blah. Energy depleted.
So, those are my updates, for now! I've also been hitting up the semi-occasional Periscope here and there (username is still "megactsout", if anyone wants to follow along), but it definitely has me feeling the "wow, when did my childhood lisp come back?" self-consciousness. If I have something to share, though, I just go for it. *shrugs* What's the harm? While I'm at it, I'm doing a bit of nursery hunting for some of the stuff I mentioned in my inspiration post -- of which I'm officially leaning towards mint and coral accents. See? I still find ways to relax. ;-)
How are you guys doing with your own transition from summer to fall? We're LOVING the slightly cooler temperatures (still not "fall" enough for us, but it's a start!) and sleeping with our windows open. Anyone else looking forward to apple picking and super comfy sweater season? (Or, in my case, over-sized maternity sweatpants.) I'm pretty excited to do some baking, personally. What about you guys?
While I'm agonizing over the small stuff (well, that's a catchy if not depressing title right there), I can't just twiddle my fingers and not write. I mean, I'm writing for Thirsties and Green Child Magazine and even an awesome Arts & Analytics group that does analytic work in arts, athletics, and entertainment...but, this is my home. And I've got ideas and thoughts that I just can't wait to get on with.
So, I thought I'd share a bit of a recap of the end of summer (all things I wanted to write about in separate posts but got inundated with life and the Wordpress conundrum). We've been back in the swing of things as far as back-to-school goes for a couple of weeks now, so it feels like summer was SO long ago, but *technically* it's not autumn until tomorrow. See? Maybe I AM on top of things.
The CSA - As you may have read, we decided to try out a local CSA this summer. CSA stands for "community supported agriculture" and, in our case, was quite easy to take part in. We selected a farm that uses organic practices, paid, Dave picked up at a location relatively close to his work, and had a box of fresh veggies to work with for the week. The verdict? I'm glad that we did it, but learned that the full share was WAY too much food for our little family. Hence, we wasted WAY more food than I was comfortable with.
I just couldn't keep up. Sure, we tried a few new-to-us recipes, but between a rather picky toddler (at least he's a fruit eater!), varying energy levels on this pregnant mama's part, and the sheer amount of food, a half-share would've been fine. Definitely a lesson for next time. Oh, and I'm also rather happy that we just did the summer share rather than the whole summer/fall share. 'Tis the season to enjoy crisp Saturday mornings at the farmers' market!
Summer fun (and learning) - While there were days that I felt like the laziest person on Earth (and I felt awful that Hadman wasn't getting outside nearly as much as he should), we tried to get out a time or two each week. With the sheer heat of the season, there were times that I'd slather us both up with sunblock, grab some toys, head outside...and turn around within 10 minutes because our little guy is just as anti-humidity as his daddy. Blah. Energy depleted.
But, we made the summer count, I think. We went to Kindermusik weekly (which sounds like nothing, but the energy it took to drive the round-trip hour at the end of those hot days...again, apparently I was a tired pregnant woman this summer!) and worked on almost-daily workbooks that the little guy loved. His focus is still hit-or-miss, but by doing a "letter of the day", a very focused coloring page (like coloring a blank shape in an otherwise colored picture), and a "same/different" book, I saw major progression from the beginning of the summer. Plus, he ALWAYS asked to do it and generally enjoyed himself. Call me a proud mama.
And, of course there was Old Forge, the beach, and Sesame Place. We felt awful that we couldn't see our friends in Massachusetts as we'd planned, but Hadley and I both got sick, then his turned into pneumonia. By the end of the summer, we were just glad not to have to use a nebulizer and to be generally back to our own selves. I'd still like to call it a productive yet relaxing time...for the most part.
Big changes - Oh, yeah. And talk about transitions!
We struggled, succeeded, and struggled again with potty training. I'm pretty sure that I waited too long to start, so that by the time we made a concerted effort, his heels were dug rather deeply. He'll still occasionally whine, "But I don't HAFTA go potty!!!" and has the occasional accident, but he's finally started feeling a sense of urgency about the thing. About two or three times a week, he'll have an accident on the way to the potty (which he urgently runs to), but the fact that he's not just sitting there in his pee with no regard to the wetness is a HUGE deal. So, I'd say we're *almost* there; I'd call him mostly trained and 100% in his "big boy underwear" (actually those cloth Gerber trainers that give a bit of extra protection that feel totally like underwear). Oh, and #1 is our only problem; we've never had issues with him as far as #2 is concerned. I'm sure you can sleep well knowing that tidbit of information.
We ALSO threw at the little man a shift in his sleeping situation. Since we're slowly-but-surely transitioning the office to ALSO house the nursery space, we finally moved my old DIY desk to the basement (it was nothing but a landing pad, I swear; I almost never sat at the thing! Works much better near our laundry area) and, eep, scooched Hadley's crib into the office. So, I sanded, primed, painted, and reassembled an awesome hand-me-down toddler bed for the little man. Verdict? He's done pretty damn great with it. Some days he wants two pillows, some days not, and he lets you KNOW about it. Little stuff like that. But, he knows not to leave the bed on his own (we've got stairs that, for a few days, we used our baby gate on...not really necessary, though), and we've got the added peace of mind that we're still using the monitor with a motion sensor under his mattress, so we know if he gets up immediately.
I was melancholy, but I think Dave took it even harder. Here's his two cents on the whole "big boy bed" change. I can't blame him. I just wanted to try to keep the shift as positive and Hadley-centric (rather than baby-centric) as possible, regardless of my "he's not our baby anymore!" emotions. And, as it was, the little man seemed to fully understand that he'd need to share it whenever the baby comes along, anyway. (And, as it is, we'll probably use a cradle in our room for the first couple of months, just like we did with Hadman, so things won't shift so dramatically, anyway.)
Home searching - And, then, there was another shift. We checked out numerous (the word "crapload" comes to mind) houses throughout the summer and all were either a) too small, b) out of our price range (particularly with work that needed to be done on some), or c) just...no. I like to think that we're not picky, but maybe it's simply not true. Given the fact that we're busy with a 3-year-old (and an infant shortly!), jobs and side gigs, we're trying to be realistic about the sheer amount of energy, time, and effort we can put into a house. We're simply not as young as we used to be, either. *hips creak*
But, seriously, we're not one of those HGTV couples who poo-poo wallpaper or completely outdated furnishings. I even completely planned on refinishing any wood floors before moving in, should they need it, as well as painting plenty of walls and doing general updating over time. It's expected. But, a full bathroom or kitchen gut might be difficult, even down the road, and would often put it as a price point that we simply couldn't reach. And, we also wanted to make sure that we didn't get a house that would juuuuuust squeeze our 3+ people and 3 cats in; we'd like to be able to spread out and grow a bit (without having too much space to take care of). Okay, maybe we are picky.
We finally reached a point where, sure, I get daily Zillow updates and check out some new listings once in awhile, but our active search has gone dormant. No more "let's just see what it's like on the inside" if we're not positive it's for us. We're trying to slow down a lot of our activities in preparation for the new baby (and in hopes of getting some fun time in with our "only child" while the title still fits), so the overwhelming rollercoaster emotions of "is this THE house???" have been put to rest. Yes, we'll continue the search at some point, but for now? We're hibernating.
And, of course there was Old Forge, the beach, and Sesame Place. We felt awful that we couldn't see our friends in Massachusetts as we'd planned, but Hadley and I both got sick, then his turned into pneumonia. By the end of the summer, we were just glad not to have to use a nebulizer and to be generally back to our own selves. I'd still like to call it a productive yet relaxing time...for the most part.
Big changes - Oh, yeah. And talk about transitions!
We struggled, succeeded, and struggled again with potty training. I'm pretty sure that I waited too long to start, so that by the time we made a concerted effort, his heels were dug rather deeply. He'll still occasionally whine, "But I don't HAFTA go potty!!!" and has the occasional accident, but he's finally started feeling a sense of urgency about the thing. About two or three times a week, he'll have an accident on the way to the potty (which he urgently runs to), but the fact that he's not just sitting there in his pee with no regard to the wetness is a HUGE deal. So, I'd say we're *almost* there; I'd call him mostly trained and 100% in his "big boy underwear" (actually those cloth Gerber trainers that give a bit of extra protection that feel totally like underwear). Oh, and #1 is our only problem; we've never had issues with him as far as #2 is concerned. I'm sure you can sleep well knowing that tidbit of information.
We ALSO threw at the little man a shift in his sleeping situation. Since we're slowly-but-surely transitioning the office to ALSO house the nursery space, we finally moved my old DIY desk to the basement (it was nothing but a landing pad, I swear; I almost never sat at the thing! Works much better near our laundry area) and, eep, scooched Hadley's crib into the office. So, I sanded, primed, painted, and reassembled an awesome hand-me-down toddler bed for the little man. Verdict? He's done pretty damn great with it. Some days he wants two pillows, some days not, and he lets you KNOW about it. Little stuff like that. But, he knows not to leave the bed on his own (we've got stairs that, for a few days, we used our baby gate on...not really necessary, though), and we've got the added peace of mind that we're still using the monitor with a motion sensor under his mattress, so we know if he gets up immediately.
I was melancholy, but I think Dave took it even harder. Here's his two cents on the whole "big boy bed" change. I can't blame him. I just wanted to try to keep the shift as positive and Hadley-centric (rather than baby-centric) as possible, regardless of my "he's not our baby anymore!" emotions. And, as it was, the little man seemed to fully understand that he'd need to share it whenever the baby comes along, anyway. (And, as it is, we'll probably use a cradle in our room for the first couple of months, just like we did with Hadman, so things won't shift so dramatically, anyway.)
Home searching - And, then, there was another shift. We checked out numerous (the word "crapload" comes to mind) houses throughout the summer and all were either a) too small, b) out of our price range (particularly with work that needed to be done on some), or c) just...no. I like to think that we're not picky, but maybe it's simply not true. Given the fact that we're busy with a 3-year-old (and an infant shortly!), jobs and side gigs, we're trying to be realistic about the sheer amount of energy, time, and effort we can put into a house. We're simply not as young as we used to be, either. *hips creak*
But, seriously, we're not one of those HGTV couples who poo-poo wallpaper or completely outdated furnishings. I even completely planned on refinishing any wood floors before moving in, should they need it, as well as painting plenty of walls and doing general updating over time. It's expected. But, a full bathroom or kitchen gut might be difficult, even down the road, and would often put it as a price point that we simply couldn't reach. And, we also wanted to make sure that we didn't get a house that would juuuuuust squeeze our 3+ people and 3 cats in; we'd like to be able to spread out and grow a bit (without having too much space to take care of). Okay, maybe we are picky.
We finally reached a point where, sure, I get daily Zillow updates and check out some new listings once in awhile, but our active search has gone dormant. No more "let's just see what it's like on the inside" if we're not positive it's for us. We're trying to slow down a lot of our activities in preparation for the new baby (and in hopes of getting some fun time in with our "only child" while the title still fits), so the overwhelming rollercoaster emotions of "is this THE house???" have been put to rest. Yes, we'll continue the search at some point, but for now? We're hibernating.
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So, those are my updates, for now! I've also been hitting up the semi-occasional Periscope here and there (username is still "megactsout", if anyone wants to follow along), but it definitely has me feeling the "wow, when did my childhood lisp come back?" self-consciousness. If I have something to share, though, I just go for it. *shrugs* What's the harm? While I'm at it, I'm doing a bit of nursery hunting for some of the stuff I mentioned in my inspiration post -- of which I'm officially leaning towards mint and coral accents. See? I still find ways to relax. ;-)
How are you guys doing with your own transition from summer to fall? We're LOVING the slightly cooler temperatures (still not "fall" enough for us, but it's a start!) and sleeping with our windows open. Anyone else looking forward to apple picking and super comfy sweater season? (Or, in my case, over-sized maternity sweatpants.) I'm pretty excited to do some baking, personally. What about you guys?
Friday, September 4, 2015
Moving...Virtually
Nope, not moving to a new house. (We wish...although, stability is a good thing. ;-))
MegActsOut is packing its bags to make a move from Blogger to Wordpress.
I've used Wordpress on and off for other projects and while I find the dashboard (or whatever the heck they call it) to be more...juvenile-looking, I guess...it should make blog maintenance and growth easier than it has been. Plus, there are a lot of built-in features that I'm itching to play with.
So, I'm hoping to make the migration this weekend sometime. If you follow me, be sure to check back here for an updated link to the new page. Heck, I may have even finalized a brand new blog name by then and everythin'. ;-)
As always, thanks SO much for reading. Hopefully, this is only the start of bigger and better things.
MegActsOut is packing its bags to make a move from Blogger to Wordpress.
I've used Wordpress on and off for other projects and while I find the dashboard (or whatever the heck they call it) to be more...juvenile-looking, I guess...it should make blog maintenance and growth easier than it has been. Plus, there are a lot of built-in features that I'm itching to play with.
So, I'm hoping to make the migration this weekend sometime. If you follow me, be sure to check back here for an updated link to the new page. Heck, I may have even finalized a brand new blog name by then and everythin'. ;-)
As always, thanks SO much for reading. Hopefully, this is only the start of bigger and better things.
Thursday, September 3, 2015
Nursery Inspiration
We live in this tiny little sphere of the universe called Limbo. It's a slightly unsettled, anxious place where the daily norm is that of the unknown. After you live there awhile, you find yourself adjusting to the feelings, and actually find calm in preparing for all the various "what if" scenarios that might unfold.
In other words, still no news on the house hunting front. There are other balls being juggled, too, that we're figuring out, but that's one of the biggest. So, with each week blowing by, closer and closer to the baby's arrival in November, we're pushing forward with any and all possibilities: in this case, turning our office into an office-slash-nursery (I kid not).
I'm hoping that whatever general scheme we go with for the space will fit swimmingly into a new place, should one pop up, as well.
See? Prepare for the future, in whatever possible incarnation it may be. ;-)
That said, these are the two different mood boards I whipped up to decide between. We're fighting a losing battle with an outdated, cheap diamond-patterned brown and tan carpet (which simply isn't worth replacing with the crappy paint splatters someone left underneath) and, well, the fact that the place is also A (not large) OFFICE. Dave may or may not allow me to replace his fur-covered black office chair. (Beardslee sleeps on it during the day...and night...and forces Dave to abandon desk when he so pleases to use the damn thing. It's hilariously sad to view.) But, dude, Mama needs a nursing spot, so we'll see who wins this one. Admittedly, I used our bed the first time around which wasn't always comfortable.
We also painted the walls when we first moved in and the color is neutral enough to help sell the house...even if it is a tad pink-ish for my taste. (It's tan...but with a fleshy undertone, if that makes sense.) The background on these boards indicates a facsimile of the color. So, nope, we're not painting!
So, check these out and weigh in down below (comments, please)! I'm not saying which has been floating in my head far more...so your results may have me in tears. Or not. I'm not THAT hormonal. Oh, and the inspiration colors will be accent colors that will work their way in as bedding, art, and possibly a painted furniture piece or something.
In other words, still no news on the house hunting front. There are other balls being juggled, too, that we're figuring out, but that's one of the biggest. So, with each week blowing by, closer and closer to the baby's arrival in November, we're pushing forward with any and all possibilities: in this case, turning our office into an office-slash-nursery (I kid not).
I'm hoping that whatever general scheme we go with for the space will fit swimmingly into a new place, should one pop up, as well.
See? Prepare for the future, in whatever possible incarnation it may be. ;-)
That said, these are the two different mood boards I whipped up to decide between. We're fighting a losing battle with an outdated, cheap diamond-patterned brown and tan carpet (which simply isn't worth replacing with the crappy paint splatters someone left underneath) and, well, the fact that the place is also A (not large) OFFICE. Dave may or may not allow me to replace his fur-covered black office chair. (Beardslee sleeps on it during the day...and night...and forces Dave to abandon desk when he so pleases to use the damn thing. It's hilariously sad to view.) But, dude, Mama needs a nursing spot, so we'll see who wins this one. Admittedly, I used our bed the first time around which wasn't always comfortable.
We also painted the walls when we first moved in and the color is neutral enough to help sell the house...even if it is a tad pink-ish for my taste. (It's tan...but with a fleshy undertone, if that makes sense.) The background on these boards indicates a facsimile of the color. So, nope, we're not painting!
So, check these out and weigh in down below (comments, please)! I'm not saying which has been floating in my head far more...so your results may have me in tears. Or not. I'm not THAT hormonal. Oh, and the inspiration colors will be accent colors that will work their way in as bedding, art, and possibly a painted furniture piece or something.
I don't want to give either a "theme" because, well, then it turns into a whole thing. Like collecting. If you say you like one thing, the flood of "I know you like owls!" gifts begin...and continue 10 years past when you gave up on the things. So, no. But you can still guess the vibe I'm going for, right?
I'm loving the golden brass lately. If you told me I'd be into it 5 years ago, I'd have smacked you...or at least raised a cynical eyebrow. But, anyhoo, mixing it with the walnut tones we already have going on (with the crib, desk, and one bookcase...we have three, sigh) and neutrals gives some glam and texture to the space. Toss that with a deep green and fuhgetaboutit.
And, speaking of texture: can you say "DIY pouf"? Because that's all my itchy Pinterest finger can peruse. Can't wait to hit up Goodwill to see what sweaters they have in store. Mwahaha.
As far as art, we don't have a TON of space, and I'd like the whole room to just accept its bipolarity and enjoy the ride - so, if there's an inspirational wall hanging, it must inspire child and office-user alike. Throw in a vintage map and it screams "Oh, the places you'll go!" as much as it does "this is a rad office, where's the scotch?"
Mmm. Booze. I miss booze.
I'm loving the golden brass lately. If you told me I'd be into it 5 years ago, I'd have smacked you...or at least raised a cynical eyebrow. But, anyhoo, mixing it with the walnut tones we already have going on (with the crib, desk, and one bookcase...we have three, sigh) and neutrals gives some glam and texture to the space. Toss that with a deep green and fuhgetaboutit.
And, speaking of texture: can you say "DIY pouf"? Because that's all my itchy Pinterest finger can peruse. Can't wait to hit up Goodwill to see what sweaters they have in store. Mwahaha.
As far as art, we don't have a TON of space, and I'd like the whole room to just accept its bipolarity and enjoy the ride - so, if there's an inspirational wall hanging, it must inspire child and office-user alike. Throw in a vintage map and it screams "Oh, the places you'll go!" as much as it does "this is a rad office, where's the scotch?"
Mmm. Booze. I miss booze.
Can you tell I kinda want that Target chair? I'm still searching for something with a small footprint that's upholstered on wheels that can be used as an office chair OR a spot to comfortably nurse, so this is just a thought for now. Hoooooly crap, am I picky? But, clearly arrows are non-negotiable. And tassel garland. Which I fully plan to make. I guess I have a thing about DIY art in a kid's room. Maybe I need some in our room while we're at it.
Notice the fluffy white rug, too? It'd be nice to have a landing pad on the floor and soften up the place. Plus, major points for detracting from the diamond monstrosity currently enveloping the space. I truly think that a well-placed layer like this will make the carpet read more like a neutral. #fingerscrossed
In this board, I clearly am all about the mint accents. Sure, a bit of peachy coral helps, but there's just something about mint + brass in a neutral room lately. Yum.
So, here's what it's your turn! I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments (and maybe even a vote or two for which is your fave). As usual, all the stuff shown depends on availability and whether I find (or make) something a million times cooler, but they give you the general vibe I'm going for.
Please and thanks for any thoughts!
Oh, and nope. We're not finding out the baby's gender in advance. Happy picking! ;-)
Notice the fluffy white rug, too? It'd be nice to have a landing pad on the floor and soften up the place. Plus, major points for detracting from the diamond monstrosity currently enveloping the space. I truly think that a well-placed layer like this will make the carpet read more like a neutral. #fingerscrossed
In this board, I clearly am all about the mint accents. Sure, a bit of peachy coral helps, but there's just something about mint + brass in a neutral room lately. Yum.
So, here's what it's your turn! I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments (and maybe even a vote or two for which is your fave). As usual, all the stuff shown depends on availability and whether I find (or make) something a million times cooler, but they give you the general vibe I'm going for.
Please and thanks for any thoughts!
Oh, and nope. We're not finding out the baby's gender in advance. Happy picking! ;-)
Tuesday, September 1, 2015
Sesame Place Trip
We had a lot of fun this summer. Some relaxation with picnics and a local beach visit, plenty of work around the house (with still more to do, of course), and lots of learning with some simple workbooks and Kindermusik. Throw in trial-and-error attempts at potty-training, a few bouts of illness, simply being pregnant, and it's been a pretty full summer!
In our pre-summer planning, we had wanted to take plenty of trips. While we took some local trips, one of our most-anticipated trips to visit friends in Massachusetts fell through, with Hadman coming down with a cough and fever. It ended up lasting quite awhile and turning into pneumonia, so we're glad that the week prior we were able to take at least one kid-centric trip.
(And we fully plan on attempting a quick day trip back to Mass this fall...SOMETIME! Pre-baby, is my guess. *wink*)
Planned well in advance, we had decided on taking the little guy to Sesame Place. We had plenty of reasons for heading here, but the most important was to do something that we could all enjoy together before becoming a family of 4 (7, including cats...which we do). Goodness knows if/what we'll be doing next year!
Dave took a 3-day weekend and we left for Pennsylvania. I'll admit, the driving took longer than expected and both adults were rather beat by all the driving of the weekend. But, along our way, we saw what, to my guys, can only be described as a mirage on the road...
Wait, what?! Yup. The 1960s Batmobile. (Not THE original, but still...a perfect replica. Not kidding.) Sitting in front of a bar, in a field. Like, seriously.
In our pre-summer planning, we had wanted to take plenty of trips. While we took some local trips, one of our most-anticipated trips to visit friends in Massachusetts fell through, with Hadman coming down with a cough and fever. It ended up lasting quite awhile and turning into pneumonia, so we're glad that the week prior we were able to take at least one kid-centric trip.
(And we fully plan on attempting a quick day trip back to Mass this fall...SOMETIME! Pre-baby, is my guess. *wink*)
Planned well in advance, we had decided on taking the little guy to Sesame Place. We had plenty of reasons for heading here, but the most important was to do something that we could all enjoy together before becoming a family of 4 (7, including cats...which we do). Goodness knows if/what we'll be doing next year!
Dave took a 3-day weekend and we left for Pennsylvania. I'll admit, the driving took longer than expected and both adults were rather beat by all the driving of the weekend. But, along our way, we saw what, to my guys, can only be described as a mirage on the road...
Wait, what?! Yup. The 1960s Batmobile. (Not THE original, but still...a perfect replica. Not kidding.) Sitting in front of a bar, in a field. Like, seriously.
Can you feel the excitement? I know I can. We already knew it would be a memorable weekend.
So, after numerous hours of driving, a Thomas DVD on a borrowed portable player (we've become those parents, apparently), and zero naps, we reached our hotel. This part of the trip worked perfectly: the hotel had a shuttle service that ran quite frequently to bring us back and forth to the park. So, since we had tickets for two days (BOGO, for the win!), we got ready for the dry rides and headed over.
Let's just say that Dave wins the award for the fact that I couldn't go on a vast majority of the rides with a baby bump. So, he had to ride with the little guy. Did I mention that he has issues with certain rides? Like, with the height and spinning and...stuff. So, clearly he gets the "Best Dad" badge for not only hitting up numerous rides but for keeping his cool and smiling while doing it. *starts a slow clap*
Anyhoo, we stayed for a few hours and enjoyed the Sesame-ness of the place (it really is awesome), then headed back to the hotel. We used the hotel pool, which was a hit for a non-swimming kiddo like ours, then hit the hay.
The next day, we had our complimentary breakfast and struck out for the far longer lines of a Saturday. I highly suggest renting a locker in advance; it worked out great for our changes and general ease of movement.
Okay, this is totally my favorite picture ever. My beach bums (who both HATE the heat). I'm the embarrassing spouse/mom, clearly.
So, we spent a long, very hot morning there doing water stuff, getting splashed, and generally enjoying the place. But, with how long the lunch lines were, we quickly decided to buy any souvenirs we wanted, then head back to the hotel. We actually ended up ordering a quick lunch and eating at the hotel, then ALL took naps (my first clue that our systems weren't adjusting well to travel). When we finally came to, we got ready and went to Hadley's favorite place - Barnes and Noble - to play with the Thomas train and look at books before going out to a crappy dinner then back to try the pool again.
Between the food that our systems weren't used to, being rundown from the trip itself, and any kid germs we came in touch with, we were all feeling pretty blah and ready to come home Sunday. On our way, we happened upon a "Taste of New York" boutique at a rest stop and, I've gotta say, it was the best meal we had the whole weekend. Some of the fruit I brought along mixed with a bunch of local, fresh snacks from around the state (and super local grassfed Greek yogurt and cheese curds), and we were able to make it home feeling a little more like ourselves.
But, by the end of the week, 2/3 of us were sick. I've definitely learned that I need to try to up our immune system protection before we take trips. Big-time.
All in all, though, the trip was SO worth it. Hadman is way more into Sesame Street lately, so he LOVED "meeting" several of the characters (namely, Count, even if the Count's splash area upset him, hee hee). It was fun to see the diversity of people visiting and thinking, "Wow, this is what Sesame Street has promoted from the beginning!" It was also interesting to hear people in one of our shuttle vans say that their daughter isn't really a fan of Sesame and wondering, "Wait, why are you spending all this money to...nevermind." ;-) Eh, no judging. Anyone could have a blast there.
So, after numerous hours of driving, a Thomas DVD on a borrowed portable player (we've become those parents, apparently), and zero naps, we reached our hotel. This part of the trip worked perfectly: the hotel had a shuttle service that ran quite frequently to bring us back and forth to the park. So, since we had tickets for two days (BOGO, for the win!), we got ready for the dry rides and headed over.
Let's just say that Dave wins the award for the fact that I couldn't go on a vast majority of the rides with a baby bump. So, he had to ride with the little guy. Did I mention that he has issues with certain rides? Like, with the height and spinning and...stuff. So, clearly he gets the "Best Dad" badge for not only hitting up numerous rides but for keeping his cool and smiling while doing it. *starts a slow clap*
The next day, we had our complimentary breakfast and struck out for the far longer lines of a Saturday. I highly suggest renting a locker in advance; it worked out great for our changes and general ease of movement.
Okay, this is totally my favorite picture ever. My beach bums (who both HATE the heat). I'm the embarrassing spouse/mom, clearly.
Between the food that our systems weren't used to, being rundown from the trip itself, and any kid germs we came in touch with, we were all feeling pretty blah and ready to come home Sunday. On our way, we happened upon a "Taste of New York" boutique at a rest stop and, I've gotta say, it was the best meal we had the whole weekend. Some of the fruit I brought along mixed with a bunch of local, fresh snacks from around the state (and super local grassfed Greek yogurt and cheese curds), and we were able to make it home feeling a little more like ourselves.
But, by the end of the week, 2/3 of us were sick. I've definitely learned that I need to try to up our immune system protection before we take trips. Big-time.
All in all, though, the trip was SO worth it. Hadman is way more into Sesame Street lately, so he LOVED "meeting" several of the characters (namely, Count, even if the Count's splash area upset him, hee hee). It was fun to see the diversity of people visiting and thinking, "Wow, this is what Sesame Street has promoted from the beginning!" It was also interesting to hear people in one of our shuttle vans say that their daughter isn't really a fan of Sesame and wondering, "Wait, why are you spending all this money to...nevermind." ;-) Eh, no judging. Anyone could have a blast there.
Gotta say, we all had a great time. And Mama got a new "cookie mug" for my milk and organic cookies...win-win! Three guesses which character mug the Dorky Daddy got.
Wednesday, July 29, 2015
The Organizational Snowball
Sometimes the most empowering achievements in life are the simplest, aren't they?
As you guys know, we've been doing plenty of organizing, purging and simplification around our humble abode lately. Some are big (why hello, there, basement), others are what I call "steps" (I'm attacking my side of the office a little at a time), and still others are a quick one-and-done attack.
Today, I'm sharing one that's made a big impact, although you wouldn't know it by walking around my house. I feel like playing the "colder, hotter" game with you all. No, seriously, keep looking. Not in the living room. Nope, cold, stay out of the kitchen. Dining room? Warmer. Getting warmer.
HOT! Bingo. That's our dining room sideboard. Or server. Or console. (Not really, too big for that.) Thingamajigger that holds china and other random sundries.
We fell in love with its '20s/'30s vibe when we were in Vermont on our honeymoon. We filled it with gorgeous china (the stuff we use once a year...maybe), decor stuff, and...crap. Crap, crap and, just for fun, a touch more crap.
It had reached the point where the top two drawers were so full that I'd pull them open a couple of inches, toss an item back in, then close it as quickly as possible (pushing pretty hard to jam it shut). Just. So. Cluttered. But, those were the only drawers that I used with any regularity. (Remember: extemporaneous china in the bottom drawers/cabinets.)
We'll just put you through one of the drawers' craziness.
I had a dream of purging and making one side into decor-type stuff and the other one into a kidcentric spot. Turns out, it wasn't too hard. And I need bigger dreams.
Just had to recycle a couple dozen super old magazines. That seems to be the theme with my house purging; magazines multiply.
I mean, really. Just check out that kid side. It has made our summertime projects and "lessons" (a couple of workbooks) so pleasant. Well, the workbooks are pretty fun, anyway, but being organized has made it such a simple, more enjoyable thing.
Aaaaand the other side. My grandmother's dictionary, some thank you notes, random decor stuff...and a cat toy that we've gotta keep in hiding. Ultra special, that dangly toy.
Aside from stuff that got tossed, here are things that either a) went in the basement (rafia, red and white ball garland that I LOVE using at Christmastime, homemade pennant garland, some random hardware, hardly-used trays) or b) off to Goodwill (frames!).
I utilized my good ol' tips of 1) usage: figuring out what still has a purpose (sorry, old magazines), 2) placement: what actually needs to be there, in the dining room area and 3) getting creative: using organizational tools in different ways (a silverware organizer turned into our art supply caddy). Super helpful, super simple.
Somehow, heading to the basement after seeing such an organized little space was the kickstart I needed to dig in down there. And, the rest is history. Er. Mostly done. (We're having the walls painted this weekend, then can move the stuff back to have an ultimately super organized space after that. Squeal!)
So, there you have it. The snowball that started the avalanche of purging. Here's what's up for the next few weeks:
- Finishing the basement stuff
- Office stuff (and possibly even moving ALL my stuff outta there...we'll see)
- Hadman's closet
- My clothes
Anyone else using summer as an excuse to organize crap? Or are you just, y'know, having fun like most people? ;-) Do tell!
As you guys know, we've been doing plenty of organizing, purging and simplification around our humble abode lately. Some are big (why hello, there, basement), others are what I call "steps" (I'm attacking my side of the office a little at a time), and still others are a quick one-and-done attack.
Today, I'm sharing one that's made a big impact, although you wouldn't know it by walking around my house. I feel like playing the "colder, hotter" game with you all. No, seriously, keep looking. Not in the living room. Nope, cold, stay out of the kitchen. Dining room? Warmer. Getting warmer.
HOT! Bingo. That's our dining room sideboard. Or server. Or console. (Not really, too big for that.) Thingamajigger that holds china and other random sundries.
We fell in love with its '20s/'30s vibe when we were in Vermont on our honeymoon. We filled it with gorgeous china (the stuff we use once a year...maybe), decor stuff, and...crap. Crap, crap and, just for fun, a touch more crap.
It had reached the point where the top two drawers were so full that I'd pull them open a couple of inches, toss an item back in, then close it as quickly as possible (pushing pretty hard to jam it shut). Just. So. Cluttered. But, those were the only drawers that I used with any regularity. (Remember: extemporaneous china in the bottom drawers/cabinets.)
We'll just put you through one of the drawers' craziness.
I had a dream of purging and making one side into decor-type stuff and the other one into a kidcentric spot. Turns out, it wasn't too hard. And I need bigger dreams.
Just had to recycle a couple dozen super old magazines. That seems to be the theme with my house purging; magazines multiply.
I mean, really. Just check out that kid side. It has made our summertime projects and "lessons" (a couple of workbooks) so pleasant. Well, the workbooks are pretty fun, anyway, but being organized has made it such a simple, more enjoyable thing.
Aaaaand the other side. My grandmother's dictionary, some thank you notes, random decor stuff...and a cat toy that we've gotta keep in hiding. Ultra special, that dangly toy.
I utilized my good ol' tips of 1) usage: figuring out what still has a purpose (sorry, old magazines), 2) placement: what actually needs to be there, in the dining room area and 3) getting creative: using organizational tools in different ways (a silverware organizer turned into our art supply caddy). Super helpful, super simple.
Somehow, heading to the basement after seeing such an organized little space was the kickstart I needed to dig in down there. And, the rest is history. Er. Mostly done. (We're having the walls painted this weekend, then can move the stuff back to have an ultimately super organized space after that. Squeal!)
So, there you have it. The snowball that started the avalanche of purging. Here's what's up for the next few weeks:
- Finishing the basement stuff
- Office stuff (and possibly even moving ALL my stuff outta there...we'll see)
- Hadman's closet
- My clothes
Anyone else using summer as an excuse to organize crap? Or are you just, y'know, having fun like most people? ;-) Do tell!
Tuesday, July 14, 2015
Christmas in July
My mother had a tendency to be early...for everything. I kind of agree, and get anxious when we don't leave early (or, God forbid, when we leave late!). But, one thing I remember her saying a lot over the years is that when we were kids she liked to get her Christmas shopping done by sometime in September. If she could do it before school started, all the better.
The poor woman can't do that anymore since it's like pulling teeth to get lists out of all four kids, spouses and grand kids. I get it. We're annoying. ;-)
But, this year, I'm hopping on the "the earlier, the better" bandwagon. With a second little one coming mid-November, my usual Black Friday fun with my sister will have to be skipped. Heck, a lot will probably get skipped. But, Chrismas fun? NEVAAAAHHHH!!
We actually have a stash that we add to throughout the year for monkey, anyway, so we'll be inspecting that to see what, if anything, we need to round it out. (Figuring out his size will be a challenge for clothes.) Dave and I have a tradition of taking a Saturday to shop together for a couple of special little guy gifts from Santa and getting coffee or lunch together, so we'll most likely drop him off to the grandparents and take the little one with us to do that again.
Otherwise, I'm already searching the interwebs for deals. There are a handful of things we need to buy for the baby, so my eyes keep wandering, but my focus is CHRISTMAS SHOPPING. Lots of online sources are touting Black Friday deals in July, so I'm hoping to stock up and get some stuff off my list sooner rather than later.
So, here's my strategy:
- Paring down. Since my side of the family is doing the "only buy stuff for the kiddos", that cuts back on the number of people we need to buy for. We will still always get something for all of our parents since they do SO much for us. I'm also hoping for "quality over quantity" for Dave and I, too, and will be setting a smaller limit than usual for ourselves and the kiddos. They'll still get stuff, but a reasonable amount, especially considering that our extended family will be getting them stuff, too.
- Infant gear. We're not buying a ton of stuff because, well, we have a lot. However, because Hadley was a summer newborn (and some of the stuff has worn out), we'll be in need of some new clothes. In advance, we'll be getting some new cloth dipes, a new carseat, and some cold weather essentials. However, we won't need a million outfits because that's what we'll get (and ask for) for Christmas, along with a couple of other baby items.
- Keep things flexible and open. It seems the closer to "Santa time" you get, the more the list grows, doesn't it? The week of Christmas, it's common for a kiddo to add one thing they RRREEEEEEAAAALLY want. Hadman was so all-over-the-place in the past that it didn't matter if Santa missed something here or there. This year, I'm asking early, working on the list *together*, and getting stuff early. However, this is why Dave and I have a shopping date closer to December -- just in case there's an item that we'd really like him to have or that he adds.
- Organization! Lists are the only way I sleep at night, I swear. So, I've got a Google Doc of my list and everyone who needs to be gifted. (I'm also going to have a list of the to-do's as far as pre-baby planning and when we get closer to the holiday, too.) Seriously, savior.
- Do as much online as possible. Sure, I could schlep out with the 3-year-old to try to buy full-priced stuff in the stores...but isn't there a better way? Yep. Shopping during naptime in your sweat shorts with free shipping and pretty decent deals? I'd call that better!
Am I the only one who is planning for (and starting in on) Christmas now? Can you blame me, though, really? ;-) Honestly, if I don't start planning now, I'm going to put off any thoughts of what's to come (and, honestly, it makes the baby feel more "real" when planning for after he/she comes) and find myself completely unprepared.
And you know that I'm starting to browse Pinterest for simple ways to celebrate Christmas (along with space saving nursery ideas).
Otherwise, I'm already searching the interwebs for deals. There are a handful of things we need to buy for the baby, so my eyes keep wandering, but my focus is CHRISTMAS SHOPPING. Lots of online sources are touting Black Friday deals in July, so I'm hoping to stock up and get some stuff off my list sooner rather than later.
So, here's my strategy:
- Paring down. Since my side of the family is doing the "only buy stuff for the kiddos", that cuts back on the number of people we need to buy for. We will still always get something for all of our parents since they do SO much for us. I'm also hoping for "quality over quantity" for Dave and I, too, and will be setting a smaller limit than usual for ourselves and the kiddos. They'll still get stuff, but a reasonable amount, especially considering that our extended family will be getting them stuff, too.
- Infant gear. We're not buying a ton of stuff because, well, we have a lot. However, because Hadley was a summer newborn (and some of the stuff has worn out), we'll be in need of some new clothes. In advance, we'll be getting some new cloth dipes, a new carseat, and some cold weather essentials. However, we won't need a million outfits because that's what we'll get (and ask for) for Christmas, along with a couple of other baby items.
- Keep things flexible and open. It seems the closer to "Santa time" you get, the more the list grows, doesn't it? The week of Christmas, it's common for a kiddo to add one thing they RRREEEEEEAAAALLY want. Hadman was so all-over-the-place in the past that it didn't matter if Santa missed something here or there. This year, I'm asking early, working on the list *together*, and getting stuff early. However, this is why Dave and I have a shopping date closer to December -- just in case there's an item that we'd really like him to have or that he adds.
- Organization! Lists are the only way I sleep at night, I swear. So, I've got a Google Doc of my list and everyone who needs to be gifted. (I'm also going to have a list of the to-do's as far as pre-baby planning and when we get closer to the holiday, too.) Seriously, savior.
- Do as much online as possible. Sure, I could schlep out with the 3-year-old to try to buy full-priced stuff in the stores...but isn't there a better way? Yep. Shopping during naptime in your sweat shorts with free shipping and pretty decent deals? I'd call that better!
Am I the only one who is planning for (and starting in on) Christmas now? Can you blame me, though, really? ;-) Honestly, if I don't start planning now, I'm going to put off any thoughts of what's to come (and, honestly, it makes the baby feel more "real" when planning for after he/she comes) and find myself completely unprepared.
And you know that I'm starting to browse Pinterest for simple ways to celebrate Christmas (along with space saving nursery ideas).
Sunday, July 12, 2015
Hadley's Third Birthday - Best Laid Plans
So, I was hoping to have a rundown of the decorative plans I had in mind for the little guy's birthday, along with some pictures of the whole thing for you today. Well, I have some pictures, but they don't show much of anything.
With all three of us under the weather and unsure of whether or not we'd be super contagious, we had originally decided to cancel the whole thing. Then, after talking with my mother a bit, we decided just to have the grandparents over. There are a couple of newborns in the family that we wouldn't want to get what we've got, so we cut it back. Besides, I had already bought tons of food (which there was no way we could save another week or two for a party that we weren't even sure others could attend), so it would be great to celebrate the day in a low-key way.
That said, I still worked hard (which, as a pregnant lady means that I worked until my belly ached -- the belly knows when it's time to slow down, y'know) to bake and chop and grate and assemble. As the time drew nearer and nearer, I realized I wouldn't have the time I'd hoped to do the decorating I had planned on.
No baby blue streamers. No Peter Rabbit cake topper and wall hanging. No poufs. No Pinterestworthiness.
That's not a word, but it's definitely a thing.
But, we did have time to do a thorough cleaning job, and last night at 11pm I found myself sketching chalkboard drawings to bring a little festivity. Oh, in complete honesty, this stuff finally took the place of my spring chalkboard and *ahem* Easter baskets. Seriously. I've been slacking. ;-)
So, from the things I grabbed at the local "dollar store", I used some faux greenery on vines to give a little garden feeling. And, seriously, don't fresh fruit and veggies do a great job at hitting both a) feeding partygoers and b) adding to the 'garden' theme?
So, we served a pared-down version of the original menu: loads of fruit, veggies and homemade herb dip (Ina Garten), cold cuts with fresh rolls, chips/cheese/crackers, "munchies" (Annie's chocolate bunnies and bunny snack mix...get it? Peter Rabbit??), and our family's favorite pasta salad (Mom brought). Water, lemonade and iced tea for the hot day's beverages. Oh, and chocolate-covered strawberries (Ina, again), homemade carrot cake (good ol' Good Housekeeping - very moist, but took FOREVER to grate the carrots) with cream cheese icing, and an untouched strawberry rhubarb crisp. Admittedly, everyone was stuffed, so that'll be breakfast this week. ;-)
I know it still sounds like a lot, but considering I cut the decorating down to next to nothing and we didn't have tomato pie and sausage bread and stuff...it was far less crazy and more chill than it would've been. Oh, and for the record, it's the only cold cuts I've had (I believe?!) the entire pregnancy. I cheated, but at least I didn't have a beer...right??
Considering we only had three guests (my stepdad wasn't feeling well) plus the three of us, this kid got GIFTS. Thomas stuff, clothes galore, books, a fishing game he's loved at his cousin's, some superhero stuff, a bubble mower and A SHAAAAARK! (We also saved some stuff for tomorrow since that's his actual day, but MAN I'm thinking we should save some of it for Christmas!)
When it was time to nap and he melted down, you could hear how sick he still is. Super runny nose, incredibly raspy...not as croupy as when he sleeps, but not good, poor thing. I'm just glad that his daddy and I have gotten past that "I don't feel goooooood" whiny crappy feeling so that we could focus on how awesome our special guy is.
We felt awful that we couldn't party it up with the whole family (namely, his super fun cousins, and I always love seeing my siblings), but I know we'll see everyone throughout the summer, so we're trying not to focus on it too much. Considering he's only turning 3 and he doesn't have a huge circle of friends yet, it was still a memorable, fun day meant to make him feel remembered. I'd say, snotty noses aside, it was a success!
Now, if he could just feel better. :-(
On a positive ending, we didn't realize how much Hadley has changed in the past year until Dave started putting together his annual video. Wow. A year ago, his words existed but were guttural and communication was highly emotionally-charged. A recent BabyCenter email updated me that he's probably saying 3-word sentences now, but it's sooo far from the truth. Aside from run-ons, he's incredibly verbal, and his vocabulary surprises us with its complexity. We still have our toddler meltdowns, but he's much better able to communicate his feelings.
He helps when we give him a task. He's open and welcoming to the idea of a little sibling (he insists it's a girl and today said her name is "Flamingo"). He's sweet with a tiny mischievous side, prefers running to sitting still, and is dying for us to find him more friends. Somewhere along the way, he's started coming to us with spontaneous moments of love and brief cuddles, which he was never a fan of before. Overall...the kid rocks.
Here are some of the answers to some questions I asked him:
Favorite Things - Age 3
Color - "Blue." (funny, it's usually orange)
Toy - "My firetruck." (really?!)
Stuffed animal - "My lamby."
Thing to take to bed - "My shark."
Fruit - "I like all of them."
Cereal - "Gorilla Munch."
Breakfast - "Gorilla Munch." (I blame the order of the questions on that answer)
Lunch - "Peanut butter and jelly." (had to answer for him; this is his fave)
Dessert - "Ice cream." (not really, he doesn't eat the stuff)
Beverage - "Grape juice!"
Dinner - "Nothing, nothing, nothing." (I think lunch and breakfast are his big meals; he'd prefer not eat dinner.)
Animal - "Uuummm...a lizard!"
Book - "Pajama Time."
Song - "1-2-3 sing with me...(continues singing own lyrics)"
Game - "Matthew and me used to play golf. And Aunt Mary and Lizzie and Uncle John were there...."
TV Show - "Cartoon Batman" (the 1970s cartoon version, although we know he loves "60s Batman", too.)
Movie - "The Muppets"
Thing to do outside - "Run around."
Best friend - "Cooper." (Actually, equal parts Cooper and Lizzie, so the answer varies.)
Job when he grows up - "Do Daddy's job...Lego Batman exercise!" (He wants to use Dave's old Lego Batman Wii game but knows he can't until he's big.)
With all three of us under the weather and unsure of whether or not we'd be super contagious, we had originally decided to cancel the whole thing. Then, after talking with my mother a bit, we decided just to have the grandparents over. There are a couple of newborns in the family that we wouldn't want to get what we've got, so we cut it back. Besides, I had already bought tons of food (which there was no way we could save another week or two for a party that we weren't even sure others could attend), so it would be great to celebrate the day in a low-key way.
That said, I still worked hard (which, as a pregnant lady means that I worked until my belly ached -- the belly knows when it's time to slow down, y'know) to bake and chop and grate and assemble. As the time drew nearer and nearer, I realized I wouldn't have the time I'd hoped to do the decorating I had planned on.
No baby blue streamers. No Peter Rabbit cake topper and wall hanging. No poufs. No Pinterestworthiness.
That's not a word, but it's definitely a thing.
But, we did have time to do a thorough cleaning job, and last night at 11pm I found myself sketching chalkboard drawings to bring a little festivity. Oh, in complete honesty, this stuff finally took the place of my spring chalkboard and *ahem* Easter baskets. Seriously. I've been slacking. ;-)
So, from the things I grabbed at the local "dollar store", I used some faux greenery on vines to give a little garden feeling. And, seriously, don't fresh fruit and veggies do a great job at hitting both a) feeding partygoers and b) adding to the 'garden' theme?
Sorry, beverages. Party was underway and, as usual, Dave took the pics while I did last-minute stuff.
I know it still sounds like a lot, but considering I cut the decorating down to next to nothing and we didn't have tomato pie and sausage bread and stuff...it was far less crazy and more chill than it would've been. Oh, and for the record, it's the only cold cuts I've had (I believe?!) the entire pregnancy. I cheated, but at least I didn't have a beer...right??
Considering we only had three guests (my stepdad wasn't feeling well) plus the three of us, this kid got GIFTS. Thomas stuff, clothes galore, books, a fishing game he's loved at his cousin's, some superhero stuff, a bubble mower and A SHAAAAARK! (We also saved some stuff for tomorrow since that's his actual day, but MAN I'm thinking we should save some of it for Christmas!)
We felt awful that we couldn't party it up with the whole family (namely, his super fun cousins, and I always love seeing my siblings), but I know we'll see everyone throughout the summer, so we're trying not to focus on it too much. Considering he's only turning 3 and he doesn't have a huge circle of friends yet, it was still a memorable, fun day meant to make him feel remembered. I'd say, snotty noses aside, it was a success!
Now, if he could just feel better. :-(
On a positive ending, we didn't realize how much Hadley has changed in the past year until Dave started putting together his annual video. Wow. A year ago, his words existed but were guttural and communication was highly emotionally-charged. A recent BabyCenter email updated me that he's probably saying 3-word sentences now, but it's sooo far from the truth. Aside from run-ons, he's incredibly verbal, and his vocabulary surprises us with its complexity. We still have our toddler meltdowns, but he's much better able to communicate his feelings.
He helps when we give him a task. He's open and welcoming to the idea of a little sibling (he insists it's a girl and today said her name is "Flamingo"). He's sweet with a tiny mischievous side, prefers running to sitting still, and is dying for us to find him more friends. Somewhere along the way, he's started coming to us with spontaneous moments of love and brief cuddles, which he was never a fan of before. Overall...the kid rocks.
Here are some of the answers to some questions I asked him:
Favorite Things - Age 3
Color - "Blue." (funny, it's usually orange)
Toy - "My firetruck." (really?!)
Stuffed animal - "My lamby."
Thing to take to bed - "My shark."
Fruit - "I like all of them."
Cereal - "Gorilla Munch."
Breakfast - "Gorilla Munch." (I blame the order of the questions on that answer)
Lunch - "Peanut butter and jelly." (had to answer for him; this is his fave)
Dessert - "Ice cream." (not really, he doesn't eat the stuff)
Beverage - "Grape juice!"
Dinner - "Nothing, nothing, nothing." (I think lunch and breakfast are his big meals; he'd prefer not eat dinner.)
Animal - "Uuummm...a lizard!"
Book - "Pajama Time."
Song - "1-2-3 sing with me...(continues singing own lyrics)"
Game - "Matthew and me used to play golf. And Aunt Mary and Lizzie and Uncle John were there...."
TV Show - "Cartoon Batman" (the 1970s cartoon version, although we know he loves "60s Batman", too.)
Movie - "The Muppets"
Thing to do outside - "Run around."
Best friend - "Cooper." (Actually, equal parts Cooper and Lizzie, so the answer varies.)
Job when he grows up - "Do Daddy's job...Lego Batman exercise!" (He wants to use Dave's old Lego Batman Wii game but knows he can't until he's big.)
Sunday, July 5, 2015
Catching Up and 21 Weeks
I inadvertently took last week off from blogging. Whoops. Sorry about that! Totally unintentional. It was my first week off from school for the summer and we had something planned (at times, several things) every. Damn. Day. Some of it was awesome; some of it was an emotional rollercoaster. Needless to say, I'm LOVING enjoying the fun and relative relaxation of the holiday weekend.
Seriously, I would love to post at least twice a week throughout the summer, depending on what's happening. So, we'll see how that goes down. ;-)
Here are a few anecdotes from what's going on in our world, in general, to catch up:
* We didn't really have set plans for Independence Day, and tend to like it that way, so we played it by ear. We met up with a close friend (and, randomly, tons of other friends and acquaintances! Love when that happens) at one of our favorite farmers' markets. Since our CSA has us filled to the gills with veggies, I was ecstatic to find a berry vendor, so we stocked up on raspberries and strawberries, and even happened upon a rare late-season bundle of rhubarb. Looks like I'll be making my grandmother's recipe for strawberry rhubarb pie, if I can track it down. Hadman had his fill of berries - seriously, is there such thing as berry overdose? - and enjoyed socializing and counting dogs.
From there, we decided to hit up Barnes and Noble (a rare successful, no-meltdowns visit) for a few gifts for the little guy's 3rd birthday, then a quick lunch at Panera's, then still more shopping at Toys 'R Us. The rest of the night was pretty chill, with nitrate-free hotdogs and corn on the cob for a super late dinner, some "Yankee Doodle Dandy" watching, and fireworks on TV. The little man stayed up way past 10 (and still had us up throughout the night, grr) and danced his arse off.
My face looks like the mother of a newborn today. (And I'm not.)
'Merica.
* House-hunting front: We found a house that we loved...but it made us reevaluate our situation and realize that, nope, we can't do it. At least, not under our current parameters and not that house. Big "wop, wop"s all around. But, as always, we appreciate what we've got and will figure it out. As Dave said, "We're lucky to have a house at all, and wherever my family is, that's home." I truly feel the exact same way.
We learned long ago not to get emotionally attached to houses with what a heart-pounding experience house-hunting can be. So, we've actually gotten good at completely objective about any house. The more that I think about it, aside from the incredible location and just-right size (two things that are, admittedly, hard to come by) of this particular house, we could totally make a future place just as loveable.
Sings "the sun'll come ooooouuuut...tomorrow!"
* Saying goodbye sucks. A quick story of friendship: Dave made a friend in high school who, as with many of his friends, became lifelong kindred spirits. Fast forward a bit and she moved back to town, along with her equally-awesome husband. We started having occasional girl time and even became pregnant just before we did with this second little bean. At the same time, she dropped the "reality bomb" that her family would be moving down south (to, admittedly, a much more comfortable situation, culturally and career-wise, for all). Prenatal yoga and an awesome Harry Potter themed baby shower, and the time has come to say goodbye.
Sad faces. Throw some tears in for good measure. I am SUPER bummed, not only that our littles won't be raised closely, but that it's so hard to make good friends. Luckily, they'll visit during the holidays and it's true that real friends never actually go away...but, yeah. Still bummed.
* Blogging for realz, yo. During the super-late naptime yesterday, I was finally able to finish off my FIRST POST EVER for an awesome (seriously, never saw one bad review!) cloth diaper company. The fact that I can speak with my own voice, NOT just discuss cloth diapering (although, clearly, that's a thing I plan to do) but also parenting toddlers/newborns and just our experiences, in general, is huge. I don't have to speak commercially. And, yes, it's paid.
Needless to say, super excited!
* Birthday boy! So, we're planning a low-key 3rd birthday for the little guy to take place...in a week. I know, I haven't posted a recap of my plans or anything (which I hope to do this week!), but at least we've stocked up on gifts. Now, just comes the *simple* meal-planning, prep & cooking/baking and any decor we may use.
So, stay tuned for that this week!
* Oh, yeah, and I'm 21 weeks along. As of last week, the baby's officially measuring from head to toe (rather than head to rump). After a spill down the stairs last week with Hadley (we're fine), I was super happy to have a sonogram showing how awesome everything's coming along last week. We did have an encounter with a usually-super-cool doctor when I asked about the impending (like, early August) blood glucose test. I had asked about the possibility of drinking or eating an alternative to the chemical- and artificial color-filled orange gunk and she became unexpectedly testy. It was actually the first time I've had blatant push-back about eating organically (not ALL the time) and naturally (again, not ALL the time, but a majority of it). Huh. So, yeah, that was weird and not the norm whatsoever for our usual visits.
***For the record, she said I COULD do the "pancake and the works meal" that morning (I had heard that are particular 100% juices that you could chug instead), but it's "the same amount of sugar"...to which I said that the sugar's not what I'm concerned about. I guess some people can't get their minds out of "sugar and calories are the enemy" mode? We're down on chemicals and general crappiness of food.***
Otherwise, everything's going fine and I'm trying not to dwell on stupid crap like that. Which, of course, means that I'm subconsciously obsessing about it and dreading my next appointment and making me think "they're forcing a C-section on me AND make me feel like crap about asking questions...okay, screw that." Blah.
For the record, I hardly feel pregnant most of the time and don't feel like I'm gaining any weight at all lately. Like, I think my tummy was bigger a month ago than now, but they didn't seem to see any issue and as long as that little heart was beating (and he/she was ACTIVE while they were trying to catch a profile view), I'm good. Like, really good. Like, "don't take me down, doc" good. And Hadley totally, 100% thinks it's a girl.
So, what's new with you guys?? I know, tons of boring information comin' atchya. I just couldn't seem to write anything else without doing a brain-dump first. You lucky readers, you. ;-)
Seriously, I would love to post at least twice a week throughout the summer, depending on what's happening. So, we'll see how that goes down. ;-)
Here are a few anecdotes from what's going on in our world, in general, to catch up:
From there, we decided to hit up Barnes and Noble (a rare successful, no-meltdowns visit) for a few gifts for the little guy's 3rd birthday, then a quick lunch at Panera's, then still more shopping at Toys 'R Us. The rest of the night was pretty chill, with nitrate-free hotdogs and corn on the cob for a super late dinner, some "Yankee Doodle Dandy" watching, and fireworks on TV. The little man stayed up way past 10 (and still had us up throughout the night, grr) and danced his arse off.
My face looks like the mother of a newborn today. (And I'm not.)
'Merica.
* House-hunting front: We found a house that we loved...but it made us reevaluate our situation and realize that, nope, we can't do it. At least, not under our current parameters and not that house. Big "wop, wop"s all around. But, as always, we appreciate what we've got and will figure it out. As Dave said, "We're lucky to have a house at all, and wherever my family is, that's home." I truly feel the exact same way.
We learned long ago not to get emotionally attached to houses with what a heart-pounding experience house-hunting can be. So, we've actually gotten good at completely objective about any house. The more that I think about it, aside from the incredible location and just-right size (two things that are, admittedly, hard to come by) of this particular house, we could totally make a future place just as loveable.
Sings "the sun'll come ooooouuuut...tomorrow!"
* Saying goodbye sucks. A quick story of friendship: Dave made a friend in high school who, as with many of his friends, became lifelong kindred spirits. Fast forward a bit and she moved back to town, along with her equally-awesome husband. We started having occasional girl time and even became pregnant just before we did with this second little bean. At the same time, she dropped the "reality bomb" that her family would be moving down south (to, admittedly, a much more comfortable situation, culturally and career-wise, for all). Prenatal yoga and an awesome Harry Potter themed baby shower, and the time has come to say goodbye.
Sad faces. Throw some tears in for good measure. I am SUPER bummed, not only that our littles won't be raised closely, but that it's so hard to make good friends. Luckily, they'll visit during the holidays and it's true that real friends never actually go away...but, yeah. Still bummed.
* Blogging for realz, yo. During the super-late naptime yesterday, I was finally able to finish off my FIRST POST EVER for an awesome (seriously, never saw one bad review!) cloth diaper company. The fact that I can speak with my own voice, NOT just discuss cloth diapering (although, clearly, that's a thing I plan to do) but also parenting toddlers/newborns and just our experiences, in general, is huge. I don't have to speak commercially. And, yes, it's paid.
Needless to say, super excited!
* Birthday boy! So, we're planning a low-key 3rd birthday for the little guy to take place...in a week. I know, I haven't posted a recap of my plans or anything (which I hope to do this week!), but at least we've stocked up on gifts. Now, just comes the *simple* meal-planning, prep & cooking/baking and any decor we may use.
So, stay tuned for that this week!
***For the record, she said I COULD do the "pancake and the works meal" that morning (I had heard that are particular 100% juices that you could chug instead), but it's "the same amount of sugar"...to which I said that the sugar's not what I'm concerned about. I guess some people can't get their minds out of "sugar and calories are the enemy" mode? We're down on chemicals and general crappiness of food.***
Otherwise, everything's going fine and I'm trying not to dwell on stupid crap like that. Which, of course, means that I'm subconsciously obsessing about it and dreading my next appointment and making me think "they're forcing a C-section on me AND make me feel like crap about asking questions...okay, screw that." Blah.
For the record, I hardly feel pregnant most of the time and don't feel like I'm gaining any weight at all lately. Like, I think my tummy was bigger a month ago than now, but they didn't seem to see any issue and as long as that little heart was beating (and he/she was ACTIVE while they were trying to catch a profile view), I'm good. Like, really good. Like, "don't take me down, doc" good. And Hadley totally, 100% thinks it's a girl.
So, what's new with you guys?? I know, tons of boring information comin' atchya. I just couldn't seem to write anything else without doing a brain-dump first. You lucky readers, you. ;-)
Wednesday, June 17, 2015
Our Summer Vacation - Where and Why
So, it
took us awhile to land on a vacation option that the whole family could
enjoy. We were originally discussing one option, but the more I
researched, the more our minds changed. Today, I'm here to share our
thought process...and, of course, where we'll be going!
Our goals were to take a few days to enjoy being a family in a fun, relaxed setting. (The "relaxed" part is relative; it's more that we'd take a slow pace.) If it could be a relatively short drive (like, 4-5 hours or less), all the better. We didn't want to try to fit a million things in and overbook, which we learned about last year (we did well, I think, but I did fit a lot in and still missed some stuff! Here's one post and a second recapping our 2014 summer trip.)
We originally considered another trip to Mass., as well as other New England trips (namely, Maine). The more that I looked and realized a) the travel time would be nuts, and b) most of the stuff we'd be doing could be done locally, we turned our attention elsewhere: Pennsylvania.
My MIL had suggested Sesame Place to us awhile back and we put it in the back of our brains...way back. Hadley's not a HUGE Sesame Street fan, but he'll watch it if it's on and we've also raised him watching the OLD episodes, so he knows Bob, Maria, David, etc just as well as he knows Abby, Elmo and Zoe. Then, his grandparents took him to see Sesame Street Live locally and meet Elmo, and he had a great time. After deciding to shift from the Maine trip, I started looking at the website and realized that he's the PERFECT age to visit.
Here are our reasons for making a completely kidcentric vacation choice:
- The place is PERFECT for a three-year-old. He's never been on rides and has a major aversion to getting his face wet, but the rides here seem like he can handle them and will probably love them, and the variety of water areas (gentle, wild, etc) are great to test out his fears. (He loves splashing and playing in water, so there's a splash pad area that he should love no matter what.)
- It's a special time, being pregnant and knowing that it's our last summer with an only child. Yes, I have dubbed it "The Summer of Hadley" and I am totally cool with that.
- It's not too far away. Bam.
- There are options to use local hotels that are family friendly and have a shuttle to get to the joint; the fact that we're going for an extended weekend and won't have to pay for parking (since there are tons of extra costs with this option) adds up. ***Since I'm preggers, I may be able to get half off my ticket when I get there since I can only do a few of the rides and the gentle water areas; fingers crossed!***
Stay tuned for a blog post about how we'll be hitting all these marks, and inexpensively
Our goals were to take a few days to enjoy being a family in a fun, relaxed setting. (The "relaxed" part is relative; it's more that we'd take a slow pace.) If it could be a relatively short drive (like, 4-5 hours or less), all the better. We didn't want to try to fit a million things in and overbook, which we learned about last year (we did well, I think, but I did fit a lot in and still missed some stuff! Here's one post and a second recapping our 2014 summer trip.)
We originally considered another trip to Mass., as well as other New England trips (namely, Maine). The more that I looked and realized a) the travel time would be nuts, and b) most of the stuff we'd be doing could be done locally, we turned our attention elsewhere: Pennsylvania.
My MIL had suggested Sesame Place to us awhile back and we put it in the back of our brains...way back. Hadley's not a HUGE Sesame Street fan, but he'll watch it if it's on and we've also raised him watching the OLD episodes, so he knows Bob, Maria, David, etc just as well as he knows Abby, Elmo and Zoe. Then, his grandparents took him to see Sesame Street Live locally and meet Elmo, and he had a great time. After deciding to shift from the Maine trip, I started looking at the website and realized that he's the PERFECT age to visit.
- The place is PERFECT for a three-year-old. He's never been on rides and has a major aversion to getting his face wet, but the rides here seem like he can handle them and will probably love them, and the variety of water areas (gentle, wild, etc) are great to test out his fears. (He loves splashing and playing in water, so there's a splash pad area that he should love no matter what.)
- It's a special time, being pregnant and knowing that it's our last summer with an only child. Yes, I have dubbed it "The Summer of Hadley" and I am totally cool with that.
- It's not too far away. Bam.
- There are options to use local hotels that are family friendly and have a shuttle to get to the joint; the fact that we're going for an extended weekend and won't have to pay for parking (since there are tons of extra costs with this option) adds up. ***Since I'm preggers, I may be able to get half off my ticket when I get there since I can only do a few of the rides and the gentle water areas; fingers crossed!***
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I usually try to fit in some history, a fun kiddo activity (usually museum-based), animals, and so forth into a vacation. This summer, however, we've got this all covered with the other cheaper activities we have planned throughout the season.
Stay tuned for a blog post about how we'll be hitting all these marks, and inexpensively
Wednesday, June 10, 2015
CSA Week #2
Last week, I talked about our first CSA box. In some ways, it was a success; in other ways, we dropped the ball. It was an awesome learning experience.
Since it's so early in the season, most of our take involved lettuces. We didn't tend to and prep the produce quickly enough, so some of it went bad. I put the chives and lovage into some water, but the lovage turned quickly and I wasn't able to use it. Lesson #1: Fresh produce goes rotten quicker than even the fresh grocery store produce. I kind of knew it already, but naively lost track of time.
It doesn't mean that we didn't use lots of the lettuce, the chives, radishes (still looking for some more recipes for those), green onions and Swiss chard.
Sauteed Swiss Chard with Parmesan and Lemon
2 Tbsp. bacon drippings
1 Tbsp. butter
1/2 small onion, diced
1 Tbsp. garlic, minced
1 bunch Swiss chard (separate ribs/stems and chop; chop leaves separately)
splash white wine
1 Tbsp. lemon juice
2 Tbsp. grated parmesan (or more)
salt to taste (optional)
Heat bacon drippings and butter in saute pan over medium-high heat. Add onion and garlic and cook about one minute. Add chard's ribs/stems and white wine; cook about 5 minutes. Add rest of leaves and cook until wilted. Add lemon juice and sprinkle with parmesan.
Would be great with a sprinkling of red pepper flakes or crumbled bacon.
This week's box includes: more salad (not nearly as much), including "head lettuce", frisee, arugula, and spinach; broccoli, broccoli raab, salad turnips, bok choi, and spearmint.
Things are getting interesting now! The ones I'm most excited about figuring out will be bok choi (I assume I'll be making stir-fry at some point), salad turnips and spearmint.
I was lucky enough to get a list of the week's take before heading to the grocery store tonight, so my meal plan includes a beef gyro type thing. I'm hoping the tzatziki I make will be improved by the mint. Plus, I'd like to try fresh mint tea. *fingers crossed*
I had never heard of salad turnips before, either, but have found that they can be eaten raw and are on the sweet side. So, we'll be using them in salads, and I may finally make some homemade hummus to try dippin'.
Now, to use up these radishes...
Since it's so early in the season, most of our take involved lettuces. We didn't tend to and prep the produce quickly enough, so some of it went bad. I put the chives and lovage into some water, but the lovage turned quickly and I wasn't able to use it. Lesson #1: Fresh produce goes rotten quicker than even the fresh grocery store produce. I kind of knew it already, but naively lost track of time.
It doesn't mean that we didn't use lots of the lettuce, the chives, radishes (still looking for some more recipes for those), green onions and Swiss chard.
So, I thought I'd share a recipe that came out pretty darn well. I based it on this recipe, but made slight variations.
2 Tbsp. bacon drippings
1 Tbsp. butter
1/2 small onion, diced
1 Tbsp. garlic, minced
1 bunch Swiss chard (separate ribs/stems and chop; chop leaves separately)
splash white wine
1 Tbsp. lemon juice
2 Tbsp. grated parmesan (or more)
salt to taste (optional)
Heat bacon drippings and butter in saute pan over medium-high heat. Add onion and garlic and cook about one minute. Add chard's ribs/stems and white wine; cook about 5 minutes. Add rest of leaves and cook until wilted. Add lemon juice and sprinkle with parmesan.
Would be great with a sprinkling of red pepper flakes or crumbled bacon.
This week's box includes: more salad (not nearly as much), including "head lettuce", frisee, arugula, and spinach; broccoli, broccoli raab, salad turnips, bok choi, and spearmint.
Things are getting interesting now! The ones I'm most excited about figuring out will be bok choi (I assume I'll be making stir-fry at some point), salad turnips and spearmint.
I was lucky enough to get a list of the week's take before heading to the grocery store tonight, so my meal plan includes a beef gyro type thing. I'm hoping the tzatziki I make will be improved by the mint. Plus, I'd like to try fresh mint tea. *fingers crossed*
I had never heard of salad turnips before, either, but have found that they can be eaten raw and are on the sweet side. So, we'll be using them in salads, and I may finally make some homemade hummus to try dippin'.
Now, to use up these radishes...
Monday, June 1, 2015
Finding Timeless
Do you ever find yourself getting burnt out by the craziness of "now"? Feeling detached from your own thoughts because of the constant viral conversations and noise? Have you ever longed to transport yourself back to another time (any) just to appreciate the simplicity of life again?
My husband and I are quite modern in most of our ideals but, by nature, drawn to "older" interests. We have both been told that we were born in the wrong time period. We gravitate to old movies - I literally can't remember the last time we saw a movie in a theater. Our car rides entail older music (Dave's into the '80s, but can also get down with classical and Big Band, which I find an awesome spousal trait). When we take a vacation, we always make at least one historically significant stop along the way. We generally prefer older houses (although goodness knows what we'll end up with during our current house hunt). The list continues on and on.
So, today I'm sharing some ideas for anyone who may have had enough of the current fast-paced, do-it-all world in which we all seem to be swirling. Here's how to add some timelessness to slow things down...
Simplify. Okay. Look at a person one hundred or more years ago (or even less, actually). How much "stuff" did they own? Or, simply think about their wardrobe. One nice Sunday outfit, then maybe two outfits for every other day. A woman used an apron and petticoats so that they didn't have to wash their dress every day. One pair of shoes kept cean.
Now, I'm not advising that we go to these extremes. But, consider this individual and ask yourself, "Am I any happier?" Life is easier thanks to modern day conveniences and we certainly don't have to "do the washing" nearly as much. But I didn't say 'is life easier?'; I said 'are you any happier?' Big difference.
So, address your closets. Check out your over-flowing storage situations. Analyze whether or not you need enough plates, cups, etc to feed four dozen people. Is this all stuff that you NEED in your life? Does it make you happier by having it? If so, you may need to do some more soul searching to discover where your fulfillment lies. (We are slowly but surely making our way through our own stuff and, boy, does it feel freeing!)
Be mindful and let go. Common sense truly used to be a common trait. It was partly inborn, partly taught. I find that by being in touch with one's surroundings and trying your best to be "present" in the current moment, we can find a lot of clarity - which, in turn, helps us make wiser choices. (There's that common sense thing.) Try your best to be mindful and you may also find yourself enjoying life quite a bit more, as well.
At the same time, the current issues that people have are plentiful. Yes, there were issues many years ago (disease and mortality have always been problems, right?), but when they were problems, they were HUGE - think: the crops didn't come in and we don't know how we'll keep the farm this year. Many of our current problems are self-made. Say you didn't have enough taken out for your taxes and rather than getting that juicy tax refund (the one you've already mentally spent), instead you have to pay. This isn't something to hold on to. It was a mistake -- a mistake you made. Own it, figure out a way to amend it (in other words, pay the darn thing), then move on. It's not the government's fault. It's yours. But, we all make mistakes, so it's perfectly find to move on.
Learning to let go can be downright liberating. Mindfulness can help you connect to your life. Both awesome things.
Go green. It's surprising (or not) how many of the "green" initiatives and suggestions these days are actually deeply rooted in practices that our great grandparents would have found to be the norm. Cloth diapering? Breastfeeding? Eating natural, home-grown foods? Finding natural treatments for minor ailments? Finding uses (and reuses) for things? Backyard chickens and gardening? None of this is new. It's just starting to make more sense to people.
There are a million small ways to go green. So, save rain water. Start a small potted garden on your patio. Keep an eye on your water use. Eat vegetarian once a week. Or check out the many websites that have a plethora of other suggestions (of course, I'm biased and love Green Child Magazine and The Eco-Friendly Family). Every time I water a plant, I think about the backyard garden my great-grandmother fed her five children on.
Step outside your comfort zone. Maybe your annual vacation consists of a nice long trip to a beachy resort with lots and lots of splashing fun for the little ones. This is an awesome way to recharge and get some fun family time in, but consider just trying one thing that might be outside of your family's comfort zone, like a quick trip to a historic lighthouse for a guided tour or a stop by the visitors center to learn more about the significance of the area you're visiting. If you're camping, you may be surprised to find a gem of a museum right in the middle of the woods (my favorite is the Adirondack Museum). There's often far more than meets the eye when you're traveling, and you may find yourself with a deeper appreciation for your favorite vacation spot.
The funny thing here is that it's often a battle with older kids (or your spouse) to take precious time away from one's vacation for one of these stops. However, if you start your kids young with this type of activity, it will often spark a further interest in history of all different kinds; and older children ride along with a pout but before long are found with smiles and laughs while helping historical interpreters pour candles or test out an old trade. Now, it's your job to get your significant other on board. ;-)
Read. The best way to get in touch with the past is to get hands-on like with the aforementioned activities. However, arguably the second best way (I have friends who would claim it to be THE best way) is to immerse yourself in books that were either written during a past time period, are set in the past, or are about the past.
The cool thing about this tip is that if you're a reader, you don't have to change much. If you like a certain style of fiction, I guarantee that you'll be able to find it in a historical setting (adventure, romance, science fiction, realistic...it's all available in historical fiction form, too). If you prefer non-fiction, well, just head for ANY time period that sparks your interest.
The great thing about history is that you can tailor it to your interests: if you enjoy a good political debate, read up on American politics (things were just as raucous and rude 150 or 200 years ago, believe it or not) or even Greek and Roman politics; if you're a world traveler, pick up a great piece on the turmoil your favorite country underwent in centuries gone-by; if you're a crafty individual, grab a "book of receipts" (oftentimes a how-to book on how to run a house in the 1700s and 1800s, it's quite fascinating and creative to see what activities were undertaken and how without electricity and modern conveniences), found for a steal on Amazon; if you're into current Hollywood celebrities, try a biography on a classic starlet; fashion, try ANY historical clothing book. There are practically endless options.
If you're not a reader, a lot can be said for "books on tape" (although they're now downloadable in a variety of formats and available as CDs), especially read by a famous actor you'll actually enjoy listening to.
Watch a movie. Wait, what? First you tell me to read a book, then you say to watch a movie? Isn't that kind of contradictory? Nope, not really. There's a ton of history in movies, whether they're new films based on historic events or an old movie about, heck, anything, either way they can open your mind.
When Dave and I were just "friends in a show together" he got me an old '40s film noir called "Scarlet Street" for my birthday. While it wasn't necessarily my usual "style" of film, it was superbly acted and meant more than anything in the world to me because he realized I had a taste for the old school (ie he "got" me). Later, when we started dating, we enjoyed nights in watching, yes, the occasional "Family Guy", but also movies that had a meaning to them, like "His Girl Friday" (Dave worked in news). Now, as our family has grown, we've raised our son with Andy Hardy movies and even a Fred Astaire clip here and there. It definitely pulls us not only back into another time, but back down to earth.
Learn about your past. You may think you know everything there is to know about yourself, and to an extent that's accurate. But, you don't fully "know thyself" until you are aware of how you got to where you are and how many people are really rooted in who you are today.
I've accomplished much of this by reading our family's papers on particular past members, but also through my research on Ancestry.com. Discovering how many ancestors had hands in real, significant historical events is both humbling and heart-touching at the same time. It definitely forces me to consider what my effect on the world might be.
You don't need to buy a subscription to Ancestry, though, to learn about your family's past. Just start by asking questions: your parents (my mom somehow knows more about my father's side than many of Dad's siblings!), any living grandparents or aunts and uncles. They all have a wealth of information to share, and it's often like chatting about old times (and people that were very dear), so can be a very pleasant conversation to have.
Try something an old way. My husband has forsaken his electric or disposable razors for an old-fashioned safety razor and brush. Aside from this method giving a good, clean shave and looking super cool on our bathroom shelf, it lowers our waste (yes, the razor part needs to be disposed, but if you rinse and dry it well, they last 5-10 times as long as they would otherwise).
We also wash our dishes by hand. I'm not sure if it conserves water, but we do our best to do so. We also don't really hate to do it (most of the time) and it gives your mind a chance to wander. You may be surprised at how just-as-convenient some "non-convenient" methods can be.
Limit your online time. This is one that Dave and I still find to be a challenge, but we're trying to be mindful (ha! See above!) about it. Unless I'm hunting for a recipe for dinner, my phone is away when the guys get home at night and doesn't reemerge until after the little guy goes to sleep. It's important to give your mind a rest and to remember that you CAN survive without checking Facebook or your email every hour (or minute).
Every once in awhile, I'll do a tech-free day (sometimes without TV, most of the time just a little). It definitely helps to break the addiction and cycle of constantly leaving the "real world" for the "non-reality" of the internet. It's hard to remember sometimes that it's not a real place to give every second of your life to. Your tangible reality - your family, friends, pets - are in the now and won't always be there. Cherish the real world.
Go outside. While avoiding that internet time, try heading outside. You can be extreme and take a hike to a tall mountain or simply head to your back deck with a coffee, but there's something refreshing and soul-recharging about listening to the birds, feeling a breeze, smelling grass and flowers. You may also strike up conversations with some unexpected neighbors, much as people once did very commonly. Just think about how much time people spent outside in years gone by and how, at the end of the day, the feeling of a day well-spent in fresh air must have filled their souls with such contentment.
So, here we have just a handful of ways to find and insert some "timeless" into your daily life. What are some ways that you hold history dear in your day-to-day life? Any suggestions to add?
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