I absolutely love this theme. Whether you're a student who is too busy (or too stubborn...hey, I've been there) to properly take care of yourself, or a parent who is too swamped and exhausted to think past the rest of the family, or just an individual who has gotten into a rut, anyone can relate to forgetting to take care of yourself.
There are so many more relevant, important things to worry about, right?
This is an underlying, unspoken issue that I see bubble up from time to time in my family. The Dorky Daddy and I are able to compartmentalize -- parenthood/family, work, maybe a hobby from time to time (acting or writing or working on our websites). But, those are the only constantly-present "compartments" of our lives.
What else falls to the wayside? Um. Lots. Here are some of my personal concerns:
Cleaning and true organization. Just ask the cake of dust on my bedroom TV. (What? We're the only ones watching it, and rarely at that. Why clean it often? Ahem. Yeah, I'm wrong.)
Health. (She says as she sits sneezing and nursing a headache while writing this.) But, seriously, this also relates to the fact that a lot of days we find ourselves just so exhausted or fatigued.
Inner peace. We're not what anyone might call "religious," but I know we'd both like to get in touch with our spiritual sides better.
Balance. Okay, for realsies, I've heard a lot of folks say that this simply isn't possible. Well, I'm pretty sure that's not 100% true. Life is totally a seesaw, and that's not a bad thing. But it's obvious when things are tipping far too much in one direction. For example, when Dave was working at his previous job, it didn't just take the time he was there, but additional work from home, as well as the stressful distraction that it caused for him. His seesaw is now officially WAY more balanced, and it's a better thing for ALL of us. Side note: We're still grateful for this DAILY.
"Us." This is more of a "we need to make a concerted effort to spend time together and HAVE FUN" than a "we have issues" thing. We've gotta make some dates and enjoy them. We need to focus on whether or not the other person is doing too much and try to take the load off. We need to discuss openly tasks that we have to work on around the house (or other things they need help with) and actively plan on days and times to work on them. This has all been easy to forget when so much of life revolves around a high-maintenance toddler. We need to take folks up on the offer to babysit more, and find more things that we can do as a trio (not just baby-centric stuff).
My ultimate issue is simply figuring out how to use my time wisely. There's so much I want to achieve, but getting motivated when I'm exhausted, or balancing the time between family and the rest of life, or ensuring that I don't let something important fall to the bottom of the list. Focusing on a different topic each week may help me implement a few small, achievable tips -- and I'd LOVE to hear any suggestions you have (or even to commiserate a bit about our individual issues).
Remember, our ultimate goal here is to focus on self care.
So, how well do you "know thyself"? What areas do you need to work on?
On this week, we’ll be assessing our needs and our personalities and getting a handle on what kind of self-care needs to happen in our lives. - See more at: http://thehumbledhomemaker.com/2014/03/embracing-self-care-community-blogging-project.html#sthash.USyLHbo4.dpuf